ShowermanSamuel

may sound like a silly q, but why would u wife a chick like that?Valid question. If she appeared to have these traits from the beginning I would not have even linked her.I'm no niave one either... She played a GOOD game from the outset. Either that or she genuinely has turned into a loon as time has gone on.

IT SalesObv she aint gettin no paper till I KNOW it's mine.But these generic "don't let her take you for a prick" aren;t much help, I know this already.I just am at a loss as to how to deal with her crazy ideas and movements.It's like she's actually MENTAL.not to divert from the thread, but who do you work for?(Im in IT sales as well)I'll PM you.

To elaborate further.. I never cheated, paid half the bills, furnished the yard etc etc. She has no reason to be pissed at me for ANYTHING.I have got email/MSN/text evidence of her nonsense. Chick even had goons out to do me suttin, she's an absolute donut. But then I don't really wanna drag a child from its mum. I'm trying SO hard to be safe to her but as with all of us my borderline can only remain in tact for so long.Even her mum has given up trying to reason with her.

IT SalesObv she aint gettin no paper till I KNOW it's mine.But these generic "don't let her take you for a prick" aren;t much help, I know this already.I just am at a loss as to how to deal with her crazy ideas and movements.It's like she's actually MENTAL.

It's all very long.I was with my chick for a year and a half, all bless living together etc. I thought I was giving her all she wanted... Nice holidays, weekends away, part financing my other car for her etc.Around September time I find out she's not been taking her pill. I went MAD.A month later she announces she pregnant - Dun know the superspermspace.I said NOTHING to persuade her either way, she just came straight out with "I'm gonna get a termination"... I said "Cool, I'll come with you to support" ... "Nah it's safe, I'll go with mum".So she gets the abortion, comes home acting all injured and emotional. Cool, I do the concerned boyfirend thing and make sure she's ok.Fast forward to November... I've lost all trust for her after the above 'incident' and have actually not hit it since then purely cos I didn't even trust her to not stick pins through doms etc. I end it and move out early December.Now this girl owes me money, I'm talking grands but the asset relating to the debt is still in my name, I also left all my stuff at the flat we shared as I literally had to duss on a quick one before we had arms and I caught a case... So am forced into still conversing with her on a bless level.Halfway thru Jan she drops the [COD4] Enemy airstrike inbound [COD4] and tells me she still pregnant...I don't believe her at first.. Then scan pics start appearing on facebook and myspace. As you can see the girl is really classy.So I've seen her twice now since Christmas, she def showing so I have conceded a youngster is on the way.I'm 23 and earn more than good money.. I've said from the outset I will handle my biz and be there for the little man.However.. One minute she is safe, next minute she using him as a weapon - "You're not goin on the birth cert" "You're not gonna have anything to do with him" "I'm moving to some next NW postcode" etc etc etc. Now I'm cool.. I understand that hormones play a small part in how a pregnant female can act... But this chick is taking it to next levels and I'm close to actually losing it with random people over small nonsense. This whole escapade is having a dire effect on my life. I lost a couple of big deals at work due to the distraction at the beggining of the year.Whilst I try to focus on the positives and actually want to enjoy the excitement of becoming a father.. This bitch wants to make it impossible and is actually going out of her way to make my life a nightmare, yet she still insists she loves me.What the RASK am I to do?PS A DNA test will be done REGARDLESS just cos it's 2008 out here.

Add me to the list... Little boy due on June 29th *apparently*The story is long.. I'll make another thread all about that ish.

...cos they know when you get there you ain't gonna go all the way home for an extra £5 innit.That's prob before 11 or something anyway. I might be wrong but boy....yeah she said there limited tickets on the door and to get there for 9.30 if you want a ticket...but long for waiting from 9.30!!LOL... Cos the want you to go into the two main bars that they happen to own whilst you wait for then rave to actually start.

I have no limit, whatever I can afford at the time on a monthly payment. It's all about a finance thing, shame that old thread has gone where I posted all the knowledge.Most so far has been £22.5k on the current one.My car allowance from work covers most of the payment - all I lose is the bag or so I put down as deposit.

...cos they know when you get there you ain't gonna go all the way home for an extra £5 innit.That's prob before 11 or something anyway. I might be wrong but boy....

I HATE it... Of the last five links I've had only one hasn't come on all needy and sh*t.For me its one of the most off-putting things a girl can do.

I find it just incredible your mum got bumped.

I thought the same... We'll see innit.They'll no doubt have the shower guy door staff additions on hand if anything happens.

LOL @ that being worth the extra paper!I'm in there a lot and I ain't got a ticket but me and the man dem will prob roll up. I can shake the promoter and half the door staff hand so I know I'll get in, but couldn't say the same for an unfamiliar face.Also don't be suprised of door price is £30 minimum.

LOL @ paying £100 to get into AreaIt's my local still. Although the promoter has had some flops in past years they've come through on most of the last live acts they've booked. We all know he's in the country anyway so I don't see why he wouldn't show.Lets just hope he don't get hype and try spray the crowd with champagne like the Game did and get rushed off the stage in a shower of glasses and bottles.

Safe for the advice.Tell me suttin. I know heads that just do pills when their at home chilling with friend or their chick. How can something that makes you enjoy a rave so much also make jammin in your house just as enjoyable?

I'll delve deeper later on on the subject.But my boy went thru on a 27yr old accountant chick who's an accountant in the City on about £80k a year - He was 20 and told her he was 24. Kept it going for six months then told her. She was cool with it and he's living in her flat with her now.Anything is possible if the girl loves you enough.

I'm a every day weed smoker. Usually mersh tho as opposed to punk.Tried poppers when I was a yout, no homes. Me and this chick found them in her mums room lol. Some red face head rush business a gwarn!Want to try ecstasy at some point although the MDMA thing is sounding more appealing.Coke is a possibility but its just there so easy and cheap I dont trust myself not to get myself in a nonsense with it.

Its hard to get in most places but Havana Club Seven rum and coke is me... With bare limes crushed in and a spoon of brown sugar. They call it a Cuba Libre. That's my drink of choice.If not an Appleton or Mount Gay and coke.I can't do them over prrof white rums. Was in Grenada last year at my chicks aunts bar... I didn't seen her fill it and necked it quick in the heat. I was missing for thr rest of the evening.I sip the rose wine quite a lot these days too.

Bring man in!Gamertag: StamDan

I'm the other guy still, SAY SOMETHING

Was this kinda how you looked when she told you?

Lady Fury

Safe Natalia

Don't be like that babes x

Yea I got a SICKY mix CD with Squeeze breast over some funky tune also if you want a different flava too.Natalie I requested uploads.. Which I guess could mean I wanted multiple vocals. Hang tight the pedantics.