JohnBobJohn

When I contemplate saying to my man "I'm going to Napa this summer" I'm trying to make a joke. I would be far more likely to contemplate going to spend the week in a disease ridden swamp than go to Napa.If my man is going to cheat, he is going to cheat. There is nothing I or any amount of naivety can change that.My man cheating does not mean he does not love me. It does not mean he isn't happy with the sex we have. It just means hes a man. Any woman (and I use the term loosely because you need to be a woman to understand this, not a girl) who thinks that there is NO possibility of her man cheating is either 1) made to feel very secure by her man i.e. manipulated or 2) in a relationship which would never have the words "I'm going to Napa" spoken during it, and even then, there is ALWAYS a possibility.Cheating is beyond nobody.However, if he feels the need to go all the way to NAPA and PAY to cheat then thats his business. The same p*ssy that is in his home town will be in Napa, except he will be competing with all the Tyrone's, Leon's, Stephen's and Wayne's (no FACE OFF) of this world.Having a man who you have realistic expectations of >>> Having a man who says "No baby, I'd never cheat... honest."*Waits for the onslaught of "My man wouldn't cheat" "I would never cheat" girls to come and try to make themselves look e-better.*