My First love, has and will always have a hold on me.First of all he's always been a flirt and he's always had a high sex drive settling for anything if he could get peice, I found this out after our relationship,I ring him sometimes out the blue to see how he's doing, now I ring him last night and he's different, he isn't drunk but he's flirting with me and telling me he misses me, at first I play along with it because it was funny, then it became too serious, I changed the subject and the phone cut off.I know he's not getting any at the moment so it's blatently obvious he's just using me. The thing that pisses me off about him is Im always there for him, Im always the one he runs to when things go wrong and this is how he pays me, total disrespect, am I going over the top here? He rang me today and I told him to ring me back in 5 mins he never did.