Sometimes i think giving second chances amounts to letting someone take the piss..Because it's never really the same. You can claim to start over but unless you are both suffering from amnesia the memory is always vivid & you can never recapture or match the oringinal relationship.Its true you know. The past is always going to be there to haunt you.At times it is good to give a second chance, if it was a minor thing.I've learnt from my mistake.