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One more side note - when youre seeing a girl do you prefer to stay over or go home?Do you like sleeping in a bed with someone?Do you like cuddling?
Depends on my feeling for the girl.Yeah I guess but again feeling.Once upon a time - Never, now I expect it, but again feelings.
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im not allowing my son to do this when he is older i want him to use the fact that i wont allow it to motivate himself to get his OWN YARD then he can do as he chooses as people (especially girls) love invite man round the fam too freely as i get this with 90% of the chicks i have done things with. not a good look when man does that and months later he aint around i think people should wait at least 2 years before they start doing that with their partner and their parents and younger siblings are around as it makes the house come like a hostel.
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I live with my partner. So it isn't just my living space.However when I lived with my dad one of my ex's stayed over a few times (sneaked him in when my dad was out), he did end up staying for a few weeks because he had a big row with his mum who kicked him out, black bags outside in the front garden, etc and had no place else to go but I was with him for around a year and half by then so my dad being the nice guy he is said he could as long as there was "no funny bizniz" which there wasn't as I don't feel comfortable with family around. I got bored and wanted my own space back after a few days though, it became really irritating.

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My girl lives with me still...and donewashingcookincleaningtidyingironingfolding for tiiiiiiiimeIt reminds me of when i was -6 cos when i wake up for college my garms for the day are all laid out for me to jump in *gunfingers*
When I first moved out and my ex used to stay alot I got the nesting instinct and used to wash and iron his clothes, cook him meals, bake, make his packed lunch, get his clothes out etc..It feels nice to do that stuff for your man. Just make sure you appreciate it, don't take it for granted.
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On a side note - if you were seeing a girl and she lived on her own, would you expect to stay over?
Erm yep... Not any old straggler but yeah.
this is the question i have been waiting forgirls complain that i DONT STAY and i dont cos i got my own yard to stay in if she is a fresh link and i like her a lot i MIGHT but more time ill just go home so i can allow myself to miss her or more likely LINK A NEXT TING THE NEXT DAYgoing home after seeing a girl at her yard is ESSENTIAL its like pressing the reset button i will NEVER go work or uni from a girls house and i drive so i can afford to do this.besides a girl will only have you around until she is bored and then the pattern WILL change and all of a sudden she aint having you round in febuary as much as she did in january.bare patterns in things like this that tell stories take it from me if a girl all of a sudden / too soon wants you to stay around its cos she is trying to ween herself off of her ex man /last link as you being there is the barrier she NEEDS to stop her from f*cking him so dont go thinking your girl is doing it cos she loves having you around once the other one pays her no mind she will then have finished using you like nicotenel and used you as a spare link.TRUSS ME PEOPLE
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Yeah my girl used to stay at mine (the 1st). My Mum didnt mind at all altjough I did sneak her in the VERY 1st time.It werent too often though coz of her famo and stuff init. She would stay probably like 3/4 times a month so we ALWAYS looked forward to it when it would happen.She would NEVER be allowed to let a boy over without grief let alone stay over. But I did stay at hers one time whenher Mum & Dad went on holiday. I stayed for like a week altogether. It was a nice feeling man, she looked after megood to.I aint gonna lie, sleeping with someone you have bear love for... is the one LOL

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im not allowing my son to do this when he is older i want him to use the fact that i wont allow it to motivate himself to get his OWN YARD then he can do as he chooses as people (especially girls) love invite man round the fam too freely as i get this with 90% of the chicks i have done things with. not a good look when man does that and months later he aint around i think people should wait at least 2 years before they start doing that with their partner and their parents and younger siblings are around as it makes the house come like a hostel.
LMAO, I agree. Even if I was allowed to have a boyfriend stay over-I probably wouldn't unless we'd been in a long term relationship. I've got a little sister, it's not about her seeing my flavour of the month emerging from my room in the morn
My girl lives with me still...and donewashingcookincleaningtidyingironingfolding for tiiiiiiiimeIt reminds me of when i was -6 cos when i wake up for college my garms for the day are all laid out for me to jump in *gunfingers*
rah she's catering to you? there aren't a lot of girl that would do all of that for a guy. she's a keeper
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If it's not a relationship, then its obviously sex. Therefore, unless she is my girlfriend...No girl can stay over at my yard (I live alone) and I refuse to stay over a girls house too. This encourages closeness/mix up/lovey dovey behaviour.It is what it is, extra priviladges come with a relationship (like staying over etc...), which we're clearly not in.GO HOME (YES I'M TALKING TO YOU FACE OFF)

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im not allowing my son to do this when he is older i want him to use the fact that i wont allow it to motivate himself to get his OWN YARD then he can do as he chooses as people (especially girls) love invite man round the fam too freely as i get this with 90% of the chicks i have done things with. not a good look when man does that and months later he aint around i think people should wait at least 2 years before they start doing that with their partner and their parents and younger siblings are around as it makes the house come like a hostel.
LMAO, I agree. Even if I was allowed to have a boyfriend stay over-I probably wouldn't unless we'd been in a long term relationship. I've got a little sister, it's not about her seeing my flavour of the month emerging from my room in the morn
My girl lives with me still...and donewashingcookincleaningtidyingironingfolding for tiiiiiiiimeIt reminds me of when i was -6 cos when i wake up for college my garms for the day are all laid out for me to jump in *gunfingers*
rah she's catering to you? there aren't a lot of girl that would do all of that for a guy. she's a keeper
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I know my parents would mind me having someone stay over. I wouldn't even bother asking
I didnt even ask mine. she just started staying later and later till it was too late to leave. Then started stay more and more frequently. Til the time came when she needed her own draws and cupboard. Then after a long while.... She got her own key.Still unsure about that last one though.
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Sharing a bed is long. Havent tried to bring anyone to stay 'cause I remember hearing my Dad say he wouldnt like to go downstairs and see someone in his house to a friend, but I think I'm gonna try him.I remember one time I stayed over one girls house the 2nd time I'd met her Mum and never met her Dad till the morning after.I was shook when I saw him walk in when I was having brekkie, but it was cool

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