why do guys always go back?

[FACE OFF BEYOND]

what i mean is only of the last say 2 years have i been able to say to girls NAH I DONT WANT YOU NO MORE i used to ride it for time like when its done we aint linking no morebut then after say a few weeks or more they come back saying "lets try again" (doing a ting or relationship or whatever) and i wont lie bare times i go back (alterego i see you watching)what im bascially asking is do you go back KNOWING you dont actually want to and try and stop ya self but still end up going backand if you do WHY.my cousin does this and its got to the stage that he literally distributes himself to bare gyal and he dont want to but he is just so accustomed to it.ive actually been BADDED UP by some girls with sh*t such as"WHY ARE YOU BEING LONG FOR JUST COME LINK ME""ARE YOU COMIN OR NOT MAN f*ck SAKE"etcdiscuss

[Da Luv Doc]

I don't go back, if it's an old link and she has improved 10 fold then I may consider it.

[Gunner]

Not really been in this position.

[JLovely]

Never experienced something like this i dont think.

[Black Casper]

i don't go bk, once im gone...im gonethe girl usually comes begs me to come back and 'talk things thro'

[CAMECHI89]

How you gonna bait me up? Boy for me its nuts init. I aint gonna lie, but the love I have for my girl is alot. 1st proper relationship and all thatand the way girls are nowadays, you CANT trust MANY. Its like they have little self worth and lack MORALS.My girl AINT PERFECT. But number one, I TRUST her (alot more than others I mean) but never saynever alie? I met her when she was 17 still a virgin (not many decent girls are, that I know now) and I was her 1stinit. When we 1st got togther, we ALWAYS saw each other and I think thats what has made it VERY HARDin our recent break ups to actually BREAK UP!We tried being friends but that NEVER worked. Emotions just get in the way.So for me and her that is the reason why its is so hard to be apart. We have had VERY GOOD times and cant justforget them. So what do we do?We get back together and we try, try again. lolIMO it is so hard to leave a decent girl coz there arnt many. And when I look at us, the only bad thing is our dumbarguments. Pride plays a BIG part in our arguments. Once that is sorted then what do we have?An almost perfect relationship. Thats why I try to work at it.

[Danger]

I feel you fam, I got links that I don't even like and actually hate, but the sex is just too much, when a girl is texting you begging you to come pick her up and do whatever u want, is a hard offer to refuse.

[marlon]

Im not sure what you mean.Go back to relationships, or links?If links, nah never done that. I dont know how many man have battried that while Ive been gone. At least when I was hitting it I knew the levels.Relationshipssh*t..well....I did. Once. And will never do it ever again. We broke up for a reason. Getting back together was just prolonging the inevitable. Looking back on it now I can see it was nothing special, but when you're with someone, theres a certain degree of self delusion on how good it actually is.In answer, Links, I would never go back. And relationships, I would never go back on.

[Dadinho]

Sometimes that old link is the only option for p*ssyits got to be done now and then

[Guest Scorpzz]

unless i'm getting some SERIOUS poontay from the girl i ain't going backhas i said before, its not about letting your ex take you for an open relationship after you just broke up with her, you broke up for a REASON fam, ain't no going back for me. ya dig

[CAMECHI89]

unless i'm getting some SERIOUS poontay from the girl i ain't going backhas i said before, its not about letting your ex take you for an open relationship after you just broke up with her, you broke up for a REASON fam, ain't no going back for me. ya dig

But what if the reason was silly/stupid and you knew if you both just fixed up a piece then thingswould be great? You telling me you would still leave it?

[Guest Scorpzz]

unless i'm getting some SERIOUS poontay from the girl i ain't going backhas i said before, its not about letting your ex take you for an open relationship after you just broke up with her, you broke up for a REASON fam, ain't no going back for me. ya dig

But what if the reason was silly/stupid and you knew if you both just fixed up a piece then thingswould be great? You telling me you would still leave it?

If the reason is stupid it obviously shows that you two ain't really suited.

[CAMECHI89]

unless i'm getting some SERIOUS poontay from the girl i ain't going backhas i said before, its not about letting your ex take you for an open relationship after you just broke up with her, you broke up for a REASON fam, ain't no going back for me. ya dig

But what if the reason was silly/stupid and you knew if you both just fixed up a piece then thingswould be great? You telling me you would still leave it?

If the reason is stupid it obviously shows that you two ain't really suited.

I swear I read your mind. I knew you would respond with that.^^^I hear what your saying yeah but that dont mean nothing really. People can make mistakes you know.You can fall out with friends, Hubbies/Wifey's, and family over something so trivial, but does that mean/showthat you aint really suited?IMO I dont think it does. People WILL clash at one point or another.I've had an argument with one of my closest boys but within couple days we sorted that sh*t out.Same with wifey, we had a clash now we are tryna sort/sorted it out.

[Carpe_Deum]

if i really left, i dont go back. its just a way of getting the sex without the baggage that comes with something completely new. eventually i'll leave again. i would also always pick my words carefully so if she was really looking for something serious she shoudla clocked.

[Mr Q]

i don't go bk, once im gone...im gone

[Guest Scorpzz]

unless i'm getting some SERIOUS poontay from the girl i ain't going backhas i said before, its not about letting your ex take you for an open relationship after you just broke up with her, you broke up for a REASON fam, ain't no going back for me. ya dig

But what if the reason was silly/stupid and you knew if you both just fixed up a piece then thingswould be great? You telling me you would still leave it?

If the reason is stupid it obviously shows that you two ain't really suited.

I swear I read your mind. I knew you would respond with that.^^^I hear what your saying yeah but that dont mean nothing really. People can make mistakes you know.You can fall out with friends, Hubbies/Wifey's, and family over something so trivial, but does that mean/showthat you aint really suited?IMO I dont think it does. People WILL clash at one point or another.I've had an argument with one of my closest boys but within couple days we sorted that sh*t out.Same with wifey, we had a clash now we are tryna sort/sorted it out.

Arguing and breaking up are two different things, I've had many tiff's with my ex's some which were MAJOR and some which were brushed off by the end of the convo.I would never break up with my girl over something stupid because it implies that the relationship is.....anything.Let me give you an example of stupid. One girl I know got locked off with this excuse ''I can't be with you anymore because I don't really have the time'' when the dude fully has time to go raving and out with his boys etc, do you think she's gonna get back with him? Would you get back with your girl if she dropped that bar to you. That is my point.*edit* You can't compare a relationship with a close friend to a relationship with a partner. Its too different.