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I'm sure you know him better than your parents or any of us on here so if you trust him go for it. BUTI think the very fact that you are posting on here and asking us what to do shows you arent really sure and if that is the case - forget it.

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how hav u got 2 see him regularlily if he livs half way across the world?webcam dnt count

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HELLO ALL!!! I have a predicament (sp) basically when i was 16 ( i am nor gnna be 21 in a month) i met this guy on holiday in Barbados, we kept in touch how ever we had to get seperated after 8 months because by folks were not down with the age difference he was 25 so thereis a 9 yr age gap plus he is from another country. So we split up on the basis that i needed time to experience life and if i still wanted to be with him then i should get in touch. three years down the line (approx) at age 19 i called him. Now we are back together, and have been for the past 18 months. I have a good job so we see each other REGULAR despite him living in Barbados and speak to each other at least three times a day . this is getting VERY expensive. My parents have never met this guy before and so forbid me to go see him a month ago, i went and now i live by myself biggrin.gif .Anyway I am sick and tired of him being in another country this man was/is my first love. I have made some many sacrafices for this dude but i do not mind because we are a unit now and we both want to make a commitment in front of the law/our families and most importantly God.my family however dnt know how to let sh*t lie. i know its gonna be bare "you know he only marring her for the visa" do you know how wide the age gap is" blah blah blah Can i cope with all of that sh*t!? a bunch of ppl who dont kno sh*t chatting junk My main thing is how on Earth do i tell my parents that the man i love has propsed and i have accepted, cuse i would hate for my father not to walk me down the aisle
You dumb bitch.Any dreaming slag who doesn't see man wants entery to this country.d*ckHEAD!!!!!!!
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HELLO ALL!!! I have a predicament (sp) basically when i was 16 ( i am nor gnna be 21 in a month) i met this guy on holiday in Barbados, we kept in touch how ever we had to get seperated after 8 months because by folks were not down with the age difference he was 25 so thereis a 9 yr age gap plus he is from another country. So we split up on the basis that i needed time to experience life and if i still wanted to be with him then i should get in touch. three years down the line (approx) at age 19 i called him. Now we are back together, and have been for the past 18 months. I have a good job so we see each other REGULAR despite him living in Barbados and speak to each other at least three times a day . this is getting VERY expensive. My parents have never met this guy before and so forbid me to go see him a month ago, i went and now i live by myself biggrin.gif .Anyway I am sick and tired of him being in another country this man was/is my first love. I have made some many sacrafices for this dude but i do not mind because we are a unit now and we both want to make a commitment in front of the law/our families and most importantly God.my family however dnt know how to let sh*t lie. i know its gonna be bare "you know he only marring her for the visa" do you know how wide the age gap is" blah blah blah Can i cope with all of that sh*t!? a bunch of ppl who dont kno sh*t chatting junk My main thing is how on Earth do i tell my parents that the man i love has propsed and i have accepted, cuse i would hate for my father not to walk me down the aisle
You dumb bitch.Any dreaming slag who doesn't see man wants entery to this country.d*ckHEAD!!!!!!!
Jeeze! That was a bit harsh!!
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seen this many a time and i still laugh at the young and dumb ones getting took .lol at all this and super lol at al the responses including Tasty's ones....get ureself a man ure age babe...u were fighting a losing battle from when he had 10 years on u....(this is normal after bout 25..any younger and the genration gap is too much) u r either to mature for ure own good or my man is too immature and is enjoyin livin the goodlife with his young and fresh chick...but yo if he is makin u happy do wat u gotta do...jus dont get married on some loose tip and then regret it lata wen u cancelling that sh*t ..tek time!!K-dot.1

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HELLO ALL!!! I have a predicament (sp) basically when i was 16 ( i am nor gnna be 21 in a month) i met this guy on holiday in Barbados, we kept in touch how ever we had to get seperated after 8 months because by folks were not down with the age difference he was 25 so thereis a 9 yr age gap plus he is from another country. So we split up on the basis that i needed time to experience life and if i still wanted to be with him then i should get in touch. three years down the line (approx) at age 19 i called him. Now we are back together, and have been for the past 18 months. I have a good job so we see each other REGULAR despite him living in Barbados and speak to each other at least three times a day . this is getting VERY expensive. My parents have never met this guy before and so forbid me to go see him a month ago, i went and now i live by myself biggrin.gif .Anyway I am sick and tired of him being in another country this man was/is my first love. I have made some many sacrafices for this dude but i do not mind because we are a unit now and we both want to make a commitment in front of the law/our families and most importantly God.my family however dnt know how to let sh*t lie. i know its gonna be bare "you know he only marring her for the visa" do you know how wide the age gap is" blah blah blah Can i cope with all of that sh*t!? a bunch of ppl who dont kno sh*t chatting junk My main thing is how on Earth do i tell my parents that the man i love has propsed and i have accepted, cuse i would hate for my father not to walk me down the aisle
You dumb bitch.Any dreaming slag who doesn't see man wants entery to this country.d*ckHEAD!!!!!!!
Jeeze! That was a bit harsh!!
it was, but boi, i aint suprisedlook at the age gap (9 years?!?)and look where he lives...was it even worth it?I was thinking is this story even true
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LOLIm not quite sure if this is a joke.For that reason I will provide two answers.If it isntI have more of a "relationship" with the girl who I see in Starbucks every morning than you do with this man.What can you possibly offer this 28 year old that will keep him loyal and faithful 4000 miles away. He hasn't known you long enough to value you more than his car.Time to get real.You are 21, you are still a child. You are still in education. You have nothing to offer a man of 28 who has probably been with more women than you have had meals. You say he is your "first love". Dont kid yourself. Parents and relatives 9 times out of 10 are right. If you exclude them from something as important as this, it will come back and bite you in the ass when you come out of it at the end realising they were right all along.Parents will give you the most honest decision which will 99% be the right one.The fact you go on about "a bunch of ppl who dont kno sh*t chatting junk" just smacks it really.Ignoring the fact your parents have been alive probably 3 times as long as you have, and experienced everything you think "they dont understand or know sh*t about" is like burying your head in the sand.But when he comes over and a year later you're raising a yute, have dropped out of law school, and hes with a next girl, family will be the first port of call for you.If it isStreets youre a c*nt

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