teq9 Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Say you met a chick that was perfect in every way, but she had a child from a previous relationship.. could you settle down with her, raise the child as your own? I know a lot of guys on here are younger so it's unlikely to happen, but still, think hypothetically.I bring this up because my boy has been with his girl for 3 years now, they met when they were both 20 and her son was 1 year old.. now I hear they are expecting a child of their own. She is a nice girl, not no slosh bucket or anything like that.. Only had that 1 serious relationship before my bredrin, but the baby father got sent down for some stupidness, he was a d*ckhead anyway, used to beat her and the son.Anyway, the question is do you think you could handle it? A good woman is a good woman, kids or no kids.. We are adults now and sh*t happens, long term relationships sometimes fail. What do you think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
McLovin' Jones Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 BooooyyyyThat's another man's seed though...Especially if I hadn't no kids of my own, I doubt I would. Plus, she'll forever have that link with next man.Llow it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AdzStar* Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 My brother's girl has a five year old son, and they've been together for a HOT minute. My bro says her son sees him as more of a dad than his actual father.But my bro is grown (27) so it's different for him than for an 18 year old. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 every girl has baggagebut thats too much baggage to deal with stillso no. . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Say you met a chick that was perfect in every way, but she had a child from a previous relationship.. could you settle down with her, raise the child as your own? I know a lot of guys on here are younger so it's unlikely to happen, but still, think hypothetically.I bring this up because my boy has been with his girl for 3 years now, they met when they were both 20 and her son was 1 year old.. now I hear they are expecting a child of their own. She is a nice girl, not no slosh bucket or anything like that.. Only had that 1 serious relationship before my bredrin, but the baby father got sent down for some stupidness, he was a d*ckhead anyway, used to beat her and the son.Anyway, the question is do you think you could handle it? A good woman is a good woman, kids or no kids.. We are adults now and sh*t happens, long term relationships sometimes fail. What do you think? NoIf I was 30, yes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaara Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 I really could not.If i were to settle down, things would have to be situated around 'us'..(me and the chick only) not some other man having a hand in the relationship.However, i am young therfore my thinking is critical. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teq9 Posted January 2, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 If the father was still about and wanted to see the child and sh*t, not sure if I could handle that.But allow writing off every woman with kids as damaged goods, I know a lot of man on here were raised by single mothers... You saying your mum shouldn't have another chance at happiness just cos she's already got a yout? Reaching a bit I know, but still.. want to provoke some responses lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clark_kent Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 yes. if u really love the girl u would take the baggage that comes wit her.bt she would need to kno dat the child is her responsibility, if the father is not around, i would help wen i can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 everyone deserves happinessbut ive seen this stuff wrong so many times and its always the children that suffermy ex goes out with this girl, who is 20 yrs old with 3 kids from 3 different dads, one a dem is hisshe used to get beat up by the last guyhe asked my advice about her, and said shes a crazy bitch and then he bred hernow they have all sorts of problems and she chats bare shiit to the kids about him so then the youts dont even wanna say nothing to himchildren complicate stuff Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
McLovin' Jones Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 If the father was still about and wanted to see the child and sh*t, not sure if I could handle that.But allow writing off every woman with kids as damaged goods, I know a lot of man on here were raised by single mothers... You saying your mum shouldn't have another chance at happiness just cos she's already got a yout? Reaching a bit I know, but still.. want to provoke some responses lolIt's not so much the case of writing off the woman, but I think with most guys out age, constant contact with another man is just pushing it too much... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savant Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 I personally would find it very hard.Yet, linking BM's (grown ones) >>>>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VonBoyage Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 I've done it beforeIts hard .. ended up staying with the chick for the childs sake.Soudns mad, but i got too attached to him..he didnt deserve his mum... the woman was a slosh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teq9 Posted January 2, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 I've done it beforeIts hard .. ended up staying with the chick for the childs sake.Soudns mad, but i got too attached to him..he didnt deserve his mum... the woman was a slosh.You get props for thatWas the dad still around? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VonBoyage Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Nah the dad werent interested at all.she fell pregs on new years eve while drunk (surprise surprise.. stupid gyal)He lashed it.. she didnt want an abortion.CHECK THE JOKE THOUGH.I found out they linked.. they f*cked..AGAIN.and now shes carrying another baby for him.. few weeks till born..How dumb can you get.Ona level. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clark_kent Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 everyone deserves happinessbut ive seen this stuff wrong so many times and its always the children that suffermy ex goes out with this girl, who is 20 yrs old with 3 kids from 3 different dads, one a dem is hisshe used to get beat up by the last guyhe asked my advice about her, and said shes a crazy bitch and then he bred hernow they have all sorts of problems and she chats bare shiit to the kids about him so then the youts dont even wanna say nothing to himchildren complicate stuffthats different....she sounds like a wasteman. 3 kids at 20!! all different fathers!!! das disaster already its bait frm dat shes a crazy bitch!plus da question was if u met ur perfect woman and she had a baby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cipher Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Everyone on here will marry virgins. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 everyone deserves happinessbut ive seen this stuff wrong so many times and its always the children that suffermy ex goes out with this girl, who is 20 yrs old with 3 kids from 3 different dads, one a dem is hisshe used to get beat up by the last guyhe asked my advice about her, and said shes a crazy bitch and then he bred hernow they have all sorts of problems and she chats bare shiit to the kids about him so then the youts dont even wanna say nothing to himchildren complicate stuffthats different....she sounds like a wasteman. 3 kids at 20!! all different fathers!!! das disaster already its bait frm dat shes a crazy bitch!plus da question was if u met ur perfect woman and she had a babyloolsorry im still bitter he bred the bitchbut yhif shes the perfect woman i would stand by my first statementeveryone deserves happiness, child or not Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Everyone on here will marry virgins.awwwso simple Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 I've done it beforeIts hard .. ended up staying with the chick for the childs sake.Soudns mad, but i got too attached to him..he didnt deserve his mum... the woman was a slosh.You get props for thatWas the dad still around? NO HE DOESN'T GET PROPS!!!!!!!SHE MUST HAVE BEEN f*ckING 87623847 MANS AND HE STILL STAYED.Thats slippin Junior Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clark_kent Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Nah the dad werent interested at all.she fell pregs on new years eve while drunk (surprise surprise.. stupid gyal)He lashed it.. she didnt want an abortion.CHECK THE JOKE THOUGH.I found out they linked.. they f*cked..AGAIN.and now shes carrying another baby for him.. few weeks till born..How dumb can you get.Ona level.either they suuuper dumb or dey bin linkin/f*ckin from day behind ur back fam (i suspect the later)off subject slightly, if u have a one night stand (wit protection) n she gets pregnant and keeps da baby (WITHOUT your consent) is it ok to dismiss relations with the child as u had no decision in whether to hav an abortion?....jus a question Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cipher Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Everyone on here will marry virgins.awwwso simple*dreams of a better day* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 no it ain ok Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Mothers will only get d*ck at the age I'm at now.Them gurls who I draw who have kids are stupid if they think I will try make a relationship with them.I want to breed a gurl KNOWINGLY and make her have her first child and have it be mine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teq9 Posted January 2, 2008 Author Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 I've done it beforeIts hard .. ended up staying with the chick for the childs sake.Soudns mad, but i got too attached to him..he didnt deserve his mum... the woman was a slosh.You get props for thatWas the dad still around? NO HE DOESN'T GET PROPS!!!!!!!SHE MUST HAVE BEEN f*ckING 87623847 MANS AND HE STILL STAYED.Thats slippin Junior He said he stayed because he felt for the child, that's admirable in my opinionoff subject slightly, if u have a one night stand (wit protection) n she gets pregnant and keeps da baby (WITHOUT your consent) is it ok to dismiss relations with the child as u had no decision in whether to hav an abortion?....jus a questionUp to you innit, personally I wouldn't cos that's a bit heartless, not the kids fault his mum is a pleb. She can still hunt you down for that child support money though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 He still gets air.Could of just visited the kid, but no, he stayed with the hoe = mug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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