dotcomma Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 He still gets air.Could of just visited the kid, but no, he stayed with the hoe = mugYou sound like sme dumb adolescent. Cme on now if you dont agree with his motives then a valid reason is sufficent, no need for calling him a mug bcos he had the balls to do smething alot of guys (including myself) would be unable to do.He gets props from me and seems like he will be a good father himslef. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
younger_lew Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 in short, NO! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 He still gets air.Could of just visited the kid, but no, he stayed with the hoe = mugYou sound like sme dumb adolescent. Cme on now if you dont agree with his motives then a valid reason is sufficent, no need for calling him a mug bcos he had the balls to do smething alot of guys (including myself) would be unable to do.He gets props from me and seems like he will be a good father himslef. I get he caught feelings for the kid, but allow staying with the mum, just visit init.I'm being serious still. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brum Guy Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Not on them 3 way relationships Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 The child, in most cases, has a father, be it part time or not. All i'm concerned with is that you can potentially see a woman being a good mother. In this case you can already SEE that she will be a good mother. That's a plus sign.Women these days are having children so it's getting harder and harder to find someone to settle with without kids. Depends on the woman and her situation. I wouldn't rule it out.Having said that, I have a son. And any woman needs to realise that my son comes first. Although thats never an issue anyway as no woman has met my son (I don't bring any Toni, Diane and Harriete around him). He has a mother, you won't be playing step-mom, and there's no "Baby Momma Drama".People, especially young people, assume way too much! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest roskie_07 Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 I couldn't do it at the age that I am at now.Maybe when like if i am 30 or something Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 i wouldnt go out with a single dadi know one, and hes hot, but i wouldnt go out with him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 i wouldnt go out with a single dadi know one, and hes hot, but i wouldnt go out with himWhy?Just curious to hear the reasons. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Humble Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 One of my boys has been together with his girl for over a year, she has a child also, I rate him cos I couldn't see myself raising next mans child. I just couldn't do it, plus I'm not looking to have kids until I'm into my late 20's/early 30's Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 i wouldnt go out with a single dadi know one, and hes hot, but i wouldnt go out with himWhy?Just curious to hear the reasons.my immediate reaction to knowing this was to jus not talk to him again, for the fact that i couldnt see it goin anywherebut i ended up getting to know him, and ive got so much respect for what hes doin and how hes dealin with his situation, i dnt wanna get into something with him jus cos i think hes hot and i like him somewhatif i cant see it lasting or going anywhere mildly serious, whats the point in gettin in the youts life and gettin to know him and shiit, i dnt think its fairplus the fact that even though im quite mature for my age or so im toldthe fact that hes raisin his yout on his own and is doin all this sh*t for himself on his jays kinda makes me feel really immature compared to himalso LLOW the drama with the youts mother, im not on that at all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 In my case, no woman I get with will be raising my son. As I said, he has a mum. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flat Eric Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Not on them 3 way relationshipsExactly what it is I think. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 In my case, no woman I get with will be raising my son. As I said, he has a mum.obviously innitbut as u said u still dont want any and any woman in ur sons life, whether shes tryin to raise him or jus gettin involvedmy bredrin, the youts mum is in prison innit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supernova Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Nah the dad werent interested at all.she fell pregs on new years eve while drunk (surprise surprise.. stupid gyal)He lashed it.. she didnt want an abortion.CHECK THE JOKE THOUGH.I found out they linked.. they f*cked..AGAIN.and now shes carrying another baby for him.. few weeks till born..How dumb can you get.Ona level.either they suuuper dumb or dey bin linkin/f*ckin from day behind ur back fam (i suspect the later)off subject slightly, if u have a one night stand (wit protection) n she gets pregnant and keeps da baby (WITHOUT your consent) is it ok to dismiss relations with the child as u had no decision in whether to hav an abortion?....jus a questionErm I think thats deep....wow....nah i cudnt do thatif i kno that thats my blood in her belly...adn she is havn it no way could i stay away cah 15 years down the line he will be looking for his farda...and its not aobut tryna forge relationshipsnah neveradn as for the questionnah never...well not at this point Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VonBoyage Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Nah i meant i stayed in touch because of the child, not with her.I werent with her when she fell pregs again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted January 3, 2008 Report Share Posted January 3, 2008 Nothing wrong with it but personally I dont like drama, so from when im hearing the wordsmanexjailIm thinking "safe" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scorpzz Posted January 3, 2008 Report Share Posted January 3, 2008 Hype Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Swiftie Posted January 3, 2008 Report Share Posted January 3, 2008 Too much complication... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Run.it Posted January 3, 2008 Report Share Posted January 3, 2008 My cousin is in this exact situation....with a chick who has a kid. It aint for me at all tbh. She could be perfect in every way but bottom line its too much f*cking hassel. Hell a relationship is tough enough where no kids are involved. Priority for the single mum is naturally going to be the kid so its always going to be a compromise thing.I see my cousins' situation and I think hes a f*cking mug, I dont get it at all. Its like hes adopted the kid and pays money for the kids upbringing cos the actual father is a waster.I dont get it and I certainly wouldnt wifey a chick with a kid. Everyone to their own I guess. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Social Posted January 3, 2008 Report Share Posted January 3, 2008 have linked wont wife Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipset Posted January 3, 2008 Report Share Posted January 3, 2008 Couldnt get with a guy who has a yout stillNot at this age anyway Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carpe_Deum Posted January 3, 2008 Report Share Posted January 3, 2008 there is mostly drama involved and from a very personal experienceone of my inlaws in the states married into a previous marriage and 2 kids, who's ex was involved in all sorts of sh*tout of pure spite he got killed by her ex so that he is out of the picture, but his life insurance still takes care of his kids, cos even though the wife hated him she loved their kidsand my inlaw did too as one of his own, he had one with her, which is why hell broke loose over my brother trying to do the same thing this yrhad been dating a girl with 2 kids from a previous marriage. family had to end itevery situation is different still and it depends on the kids ages, but there will always be strings attached to such marriagesbe it dealing with the ex or his genes in the kids you will be raising. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted January 3, 2008 Report Share Posted January 3, 2008 Nothing wrong with it but personally I dont like drama, so from when im hearing the wordsmanexjailIm thinking "safe"truthits not so much the kid thats the issue its the man in my opinion when i say i wouldnt go with a girl with kids its not the kids that bother me AT ALL unless she lets them be rude etc its the relationship with her ex that concerns me.if he is a father like me that literally takes the kids and bounces like ME then cool but if he is a father that is still playing catch up with his life and still learning to walk on his own two feet (BASICALLY WASTE) im just not going there cos somehow it will affect me and i cant be having that.its hard to really explain it but i know what im NOT having you know when you got one of them women that say they cant talk and then their man is kickin down their door etc once a girl has that its like HER having an autisic child (but worse and less tolerable)IT WILL ALWAYS BE A FACTOR.NO MATTER HOW NICE THE CHICK IS.i know its a f*cked up example i just used but its really THAT REAL truss me when ya a baby father you have POWER ive showed you lot this the man my baby mother is with right now has a yute elsewhere and in my opinion is WASTE but even worse on his part is that he dont even really see his own yute that he got with my sons mum and i CAN LITERALLYchange his life in one phone callall it takes is for me to say to my babymother"LETS TRY AGAIN"who is she gonna pick?at that age a woman wants STABILITY more than she wants her own legs so with that being said im always the better option even for a single girl so for a babymother because if she moves on from him that means 3 BABYFATHERS SO BOYYYYYYYYYYMEHtruss all you lot considering doing it remember my words and THEN make your decision.AND ALLOW SENDING cos you will just end up missin the point and then assume IM WASTE cos of her actions and if you do it really isnt me ya slewing cos i have absolutely NO CARE IN MY VEINS FOR HER its just my son im dealin wid ya zeet.im in a similar scenario to kool g rap (go find out who his babymother is for more of a feel of where im comin from)ps i would say she is a bitch FO SHO but i wouldnt class her as a hoe nor am i afraid to if she was. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cunt Face. Posted January 3, 2008 Report Share Posted January 3, 2008 there is mostly drama involved and from a very personal experienceone of my inlaws in the states married into a previous marriage and 2 kids, who's ex was involved in all sorts of sh*tout of pure spite he got killed by her ex so that he is out of the picture, but his life insurance still takes care of his kids, cos even though the wife hated him she loved their kidsand my inlaw did too as one of his own, he had one with her, which is why hell broke loose over my brother trying to do the same thing this yrhad been dating a girl with 2 kids from a previous marriage. family had to end itevery situation is different still and it depends on the kids ages, but there will always be strings attached to such marriagesbe it dealing with the ex or his genes in the kids you will be raising. No sending, but I didn't under stand the first paragraph, can you rephrase it please??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TF/S4DK Posted January 3, 2008 Report Share Posted January 3, 2008 in short, NO! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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