your wifey/hubby tells u they r going napa/malia this summer what do you say?

[clark_kent]

i believe their are a few girls that would actually not do anything as they generally just follow the crowd and want a good time.hopefully my future wifey would have more sense thanb to entertain such a idea.really if she wanted to go id kick up a fuss and say no. if she still goes den id b so parrow/vex dat i wud either lock it or start linkin nex gal.

[CK.]

Assume shes taking me... And when she decides to drop that she doesnt want me coming along.I'll laugh and walk upstairs.She'll get the picture

[FACE OFF]

i believe their are a few girls that would actually not do anything as they generally just follow the crowd and want a good time.hopefully my future wifey would have more sense thanb to entertain such a idea.really if she wanted to go id kick up a fuss and say no. if she still goes den id b so parrow/vex dat i wud either lock it or start linkin nex gal.

im sure there are many girls that would sleep in the same bed as their ex and not sex him and think thats okay with their current man.the only reason girls justify this is because there are SOME LAMES out there that make it seem like its okay.the more men that get some back bone the less girls will think its acceptable you let girls think its cool and they will go thinking just that. Thats why so many girls on here are arguing against this cos somewhere they have had a man that WOULD accept it as he is a doormat or they heard their friends man allowed it thats why if you confront them they are likely to say."OH WELL MY EX DIDNT MIND""OH MY GIRL MARISA'S MAN DIDNT MIND"last line of defence.

[AdzStar*]

I personally wouldn't wanna go to somewhere like napa or malia. The way I see it, if I'm going on holiday I'm looking to escape certain people, not see the sameeee people I see in the bitz day in day out.Them locations aren't really my guy's cup of tea either so it's not a problem. He started hyping up when I said I was going Miami with the girls. I realised it will be a craaaazy hype. Most of my chicks will be single and looking for a bow wow look-a-like. I'm not looking to go on manhunts in south beach.So me and one of my closest are going to New York instead, to stay with her aunty. A PASTOR. No nookie on my holiday.

[FACE OFF]

my girl going nappa

[JLovely]

Seriously any man that lets his chick go Napa, Malia, etc is a doormat.Not on my shift thats for sure.

That's air!I went and did nothing.

How long were you with your man for at the time?

Ermmmmm 7/8mnths.

[Dipset]

Couldnt really do anything if he chose to go .. although id be cautious .. and would have to trust him not to do anything he shouldntLow Napa and Malia type holidays though

[Ella]

I'd be pissed off that he would even think about going there, but if my man told me he was going malia or napa, what can I do? nothing.I'd let him know I ain't happy about it, but kicking up a big fuss, imo, would only give him an excuse to really enjoy himself and sleep around. And if he did do anything he'd better pray that I don't find out.

How old are you?

19

[Gaara]

Laugh..Then realise I was daydreaming- theres no way I'm commited.

[Colin Turnover]

LOLOLOLOLOLOL I knew this topic wouldn't fail.[Destiny's Child] ITS JUST EMOTIONS [/Destiny's Child]That's all I've got to say on the matter.

[JohnBobJohn]

When I contemplate saying to my man "I'm going to Napa this summer" I'm trying to make a joke. I would be far more likely to contemplate going to spend the week in a disease ridden swamp than go to Napa.If my man is going to cheat, he is going to cheat. There is nothing I or any amount of naivety can change that.My man cheating does not mean he does not love me. It does not mean he isn't happy with the sex we have. It just means hes a man. Any woman (and I use the term loosely because you need to be a woman to understand this, not a girl) who thinks that there is NO possibility of her man cheating is either 1) made to feel very secure by her man i.e. manipulated or 2) in a relationship which would never have the words "I'm going to Napa" spoken during it, and even then, there is ALWAYS a possibility.Cheating is beyond nobody.However, if he feels the need to go all the way to NAPA and PAY to cheat then thats his business. The same p*ssy that is in his home town will be in Napa, except he will be competing with all the Tyrone's, Leon's, Stephen's and Wayne's (no FACE OFF) of this world.Having a man who you have realistic expectations of >>> Having a man who says "No baby, I'd never cheat... honest."*Waits for the onslaught of "My man wouldn't cheat" "I would never cheat" girls to come and try to make themselves look e-better.*

[Guest Robin_Van_PersG]

f*ck her, f*ck her off, find out how loose she went on in malia/napa and expose the slut.

[FACE OFF]

When I contemplate saying to my man "I'm going to Napa this summer" I'm trying to make a joke. I would be far more likely to contemplate going to spend the week in a disease ridden swamp than go to Napa.If my man is going to cheat, he is going to cheat. There is nothing I or any amount of naivety can change that.My man cheating does not mean he does not love me. It does not mean he isn't happy with the sex we have. It just means hes a man. Any woman (and I use the term loosely because you need to be a woman to understand this, not a girl) who thinks that there is NO possibility of her man cheating is either 1) made to feel very secure by her man i.e. manipulated or 2) in a relationship which would never have the words "I'm going to Napa" spoken during it, and even then, there is ALWAYS a possibility.Cheating is beyond nobody.However, if he feels the need to go all the way to NAPA and PAY to cheat then thats his business. The same p*ssy that is in his home town will be in Napa, except he will be competing with all the Tyrone's, Leon's, Stephen's and Wayne's (no FACE OFF) of this world.Having a man who you have realistic expectations of >>> Having a man who says "No baby, I'd never cheat... honest."*Waits for the onslaught of "My man wouldn't cheat" "I would never cheat" girls to come and try to make themselves look e-better.*

WHO ARE YOU?

[marlon]

i believe their are a few girls that would actually not do anything as they generally just follow the crowd and want a good time.hopefully my future wifey would have more sense thanb to entertain such a idea.really if she wanted to go id kick up a fuss and say no. if she still goes den id b so parrow/vex dat i wud either lock it or start linkin nex gal.

im sure there are many girls that would sleep in the same bed as their ex and not sex him and think thats okay with their current man.the only reason girls justify this is because there are SOME LAMES out there that make it seem like its okay.the more men that get some back bone the less girls will think its acceptable you let girls think its cool and they will go thinking just that. Thats why so many girls on here are arguing against this cos somewhere they have had a man that WOULD accept it as he is a doormat or they heard their friends man allowed it thats why if you confront them they are likely to say."OH WELL MY EX DIDNT MIND""OH MY GIRL MARISA'S MAN DIDNT MIND"last line of defence.

Oh sh*tHow can you just say exactly what im thinking maayn.

When I contemplate saying to my man "I'm going to Napa this summer" I'm trying to make a joke. I would be far more likely to contemplate going to spend the week in a disease ridden swamp than go to Napa.If my man is going to cheat, he is going to cheat. There is nothing I or any amount of naivety can change that.My man cheating does not mean he does not love me. It does not mean he isn't happy with the sex we have. It just means hes a man. Any woman (and I use the term loosely because you need to be a woman to understand this, not a girl) who thinks that there is NO possibility of her man cheating is either 1) made to feel very secure by her man i.e. manipulated or 2) in a relationship which would never have the words "I'm going to Napa" spoken during it, and even then, there is ALWAYS a possibility.Cheating is beyond nobody.However, if he feels the need to go all the way to NAPA and PAY to cheat then thats his business. The same p*ssy that is in his home town will be in Napa, except he will be competing with all the Tyrone's, Leon's, Stephen's and Wayne's (no FACE OFF) of this world.Having a man who you have realistic expectations of >>> Having a man who says "No baby, I'd never cheat... honest."*Waits for the onslaught of "My man wouldn't cheat" "I would never cheat" girls to come and try to make themselves look e-better.*

WHO ARE YOU?

lol Match made in Heaven with them views there..

[o-guy]

who's goingif certain heads i knw that are going (like boys) then i will openly express my distain for her trip, i won't say u CAN'T go.if i dn't mind the peoplethen its have fun and behave

[FACE OFF]

to be fair im more mature to understand women now and i will NOT wile out.ill just let her enjoy her holiday and tell her "BE SAFE"and when she comes back ill tell her EXACTLY how i feel and end the relationship and if she says "why didnt you tell me? i would of rather kept you then go there" ill just say well "whats done is done" and ill say this KNOWING if i said didnt like it she would make an argument or say im being unreasonable.after all of which ill just stay good friends with her and make her a friend with benefits and move on.life is too short to ruin ya relationship cos you dont trust ya girl in nappa but life is also too REAL for you to allow ya partner to take you for a doormat the knock on effects on ya everyday life is too great and its better off you let her go and GROW UP.women wise up sooner or later.

[FACE OFF]

When I contemplate saying to my man "I'm going to Napa this summer" I'm trying to make a joke. I would be far more likely to contemplate going to spend the week in a disease ridden swamp than go to Napa.If my man is going to cheat, he is going to cheat. There is nothing I or any amount of naivety can change that.My man cheating does not mean he does not love me. It does not mean he isn't happy with the sex we have. It just means hes a man. Any woman (and I use the term loosely because you need to be a woman to understand this, not a girl) who thinks that there is NO possibility of her man cheating is either 1) made to feel very secure by her man i.e. manipulated or 2) in a relationship which would never have the words "I'm going to Napa" spoken during it, and even then, there is ALWAYS a possibility.Cheating is beyond nobody.However, if he feels the need to go all the way to NAPA and PAY to cheat then thats his business. The same p*ssy that is in his home town will be in Napa, except he will be competing with all the Tyrone's, Leon's, Stephen's and Wayne's (no FACE OFF) of this world.Having a man who you have realistic expectations of >>> Having a man who says "No baby, I'd never cheat... honest."*Waits for the onslaught of "My man wouldn't cheat" "I would never cheat" girls to come and try to make themselves look e-better.*

I REALLY REALLYREALLYLIKE YOU

[Cipher]

lol@ lettin them go, then planning some next break up ting wit them when they are back.I would go napa and not cheat.If by august (when I am in napa) and In a relatiopnship, nothing will happen with me & other girls so..

[Karizma]

too many qoutables...and in answer to the question its a demeanor thing and really not about her cheating or not, u go them places for one thing and if ure not there for that then spend ure pees on a more appropriate holiday wit ure man...the mandem have already lay it down clearly so i wont repeat anything youve heard already...but lol if u let her go without droppin some p45 barsK-dot.1

[FACE OFF]

if a girl im with goes to this holiday ill give her a packet of condoms and see if that action says what im thinking