LIQUID Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 whos ever been preg or had a scare and what was ur partners reaction? how did u deal with the situation and how did u come to get preg/ have a scare (eg pissed, dom split etc). most importantly how did it make u feel? (soz if i upset anyone, but one gyal i was chattin to about this before broke down an cried infront of me)soz if this topics been done before bt i dow fink it has Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Messy Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 never had a pregnancy scare im very meticulous in that area,im pregnant now with a planned pregnancy. before my pregnancy i had a coil had it removed when we wanted a baby.we were both shocked when i first got pregnant even when you plan it its scary so i cant imagine how scary finding out you are pregnant is when its the last thing on your mind thats why i cant understand why alot of people are not more careful to avoid/counteract accidents. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jodie Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 Nope. Not me for quite a long time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Seriouss Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 Messy, I've got a coil too - did you find it easy to get pregnant once you had it removed?I'm not planning it now but for future refrence!And did having it taken out hurt? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Messy Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 Messy, I've got a coil too - did you find it easy to get pregnant once you had it removed?I'm not planning it now but for future refrence!And did having it taken out hurt? i had to have cells removed so after i had it out i had to wait 6 weeks before i could have sex but i got pregnant straight away,does your one release hormones/ mine didnt so i dont know if that makes a diff in how long it takes.it hurt a bit when they took it out but nowhere near as much as when they put it in ,that felt like they shoved a sharpened pencil up inside me lol! apparently it hurts more when you havnt had kids so hopefully when i have one put back in it wont hurt as much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Seriouss Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 Messy, I've got a coil too - did you find it easy to get pregnant once you had it removed?I'm not planning it now but for future refrence!And did having it taken out hurt? i had to have cells removed so after i had it out i had to wait 6 weeks before i could have sex but i got pregnant straight away,does your one release hormones/ mine didnt so i dont know if that makes a diff in how long it takes.it hurt a bit when they took it out but nowhere near as much as when they put it in ,that felt like they shoved a sharpened pencil up inside me lol! apparently it hurts more when you havnt had kids so hopefully when i have one put back in it wont hurt as much. Yeah, I have a Mirena which uses hormone too. I'm scared to get it out, having it in hurt!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mic Man Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 lol, i remember when a girl i was dealing with had a scare.and i said the first thing that came to my head, which was..[Chris Rock] What you gonna do? [/Chris Rock] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurtis Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 yea couple weeks after i beat a ting she txt me askin if the dom had splitthis was last summer.obv i said i dunno coz checkin for holes wasnt the first thing on my mind when i buss.but it was all kool Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShowermanSamuel Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 My ex (lunatic) reckons she pregnant now.I'm fumin cos she tricked me into it... Was on the pill but purposefully stopped takin it. I only found out cos she told my sister when she was drunk.I went mad at her for the deception but didn't actually tell her to terminate it. She decided that herself... Even came home after and had me thinking she was in pain and sh*t.Now two or three months later and she's still pregnant APPARENTLY - Lied about the termination. I've had pregnancy test in my glove box for two weeks.. Will she piss on it in front of me NO. Reckons she had a scan last week, will she show me it with my own eyes so I can clock her name on the top NOEven her mums don't believe her. Further more, I'm bein safe sayin yea ur a wastegash but I'll do my thing with the kid "Nah f*ck that I dont want you havin nothing to do with it".If she is I'm pissed for life cos she is actually CRAZY. If she isn't she's gonna be EMBARRASED putting a scan as her MSN pic and adding the 'My Pregnancy' application on facebook.Life is stressful right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipset Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 Nope, Can't say ive had a scareI remember last yr when one of my close mates had a preg scare .. was deep, but luckily it remained just a scare and not reality. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 well one time the condom split, i wasn't on the pill,didnt go for the mornin after pill either. so yeeeeeee i was lucky not to get pregnant, yeye i know it was stupid but hey what can i say , i was stupid back then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuLu Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 My ex (lunatic) reckons she pregnant now.I'm fumin cos she tricked me into it... Was on the pill but purposefully stopped takin it. I only found out cos she told my sister when she was drunk.I went mad at her for the deception but didn't actually tell her to terminate it. She decided that herself... Even came home after and had me thinking she was in pain and sh*t.Now two or three months later and she's still pregnant APPARENTLY - Lied about the termination. I've had pregnancy test in my glove box for two weeks.. Will she piss on it in front of me NO. Reckons she had a scan last week, will she show me it with my own eyes so I can clock her name on the top NOEven her mums don't believe her. Further more, I'm bein safe sayin yea ur a wastegash but I'll do my thing with the kid "Nah f*ck that I dont want you havin nothing to do with it".If she is I'm pissed for life cos she is actually CRAZY. If she isn't she's gonna be EMBARRASED putting a scan as her MSN pic and adding the 'My Pregnancy' application on facebook.Life is stressful right now.your in some f*cked up situation, i feel for yousounds like she is craving attention from you , she will go to any extreme to still have some kind of contact with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marlon Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 While I was with an ex a while ago, she was supposed to be on the pill.I was at hers one day, and when she was in the shower, I saw the pack on her bed.It was completely sealed for all the days up to the week we were in.2 Days later she says "Im pregnant". Claimed she had forgotten.Said she would run away and keep it and never tell me. That was after I told her whatever she decided I would support her, but I didnt think I or her was at the stage where we were ready. Reckoned she had an abortion.Blamed me for months. Used it as ammo in every argument, and coz I'd been with her for a long time, I put up with it.Turned out she lied on more than one ocassion about things which had happened to her, including being pregnant a SECOND time and having a SECOND abortion (it never happened).She was too insecure and wanted to keep me, do stupid sh*t, and lie to get my sympathy. You best watch you don't get insecure or crazy chicks. They will f*ck up your life.Those are my pregnancy scares. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flat Eric Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 Worst thing ever Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ego Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 im highly fertile as i found out during one summerit was the worst. . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soca Junkie Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 Hmm with my ex got a bit caught up in the moment and nothing was used... was a sunday so clinic wasn't open... he wasn't making the situation any better about he's planning what we'd do if it did happen... I was shook...some looong wait for my period... but when it came I nearly cried. Never again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ch33kyWun Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 Once and never f*cking again. But then I use every damn thing because my family is so damn fertile. Pill, condoms, got a phram as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savant Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 Once.Never again.Staring at the walls and mumbling at the same time aint a good look. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Afroman Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 When my ex told me she might b e preggers. I was shook like a mofo.I was quiet and sh*t. dumb lookin. pictuing myself walking along her pushing a pram.. man was just 18 then as well.lol I remeber people asking me 'whats good?' and I couldnt answer...Found out she was lying.....Tryna play mind games. Dem thing wont be happening again.. Its double rubbers I dont care how many pills she claims she took Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kurtis Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 When my ex told me she might b e preggers. I was shook like a mofo.I was quiet and sh*t. dumb lookin. pictuing myself walking along her pushing a pram.. man was just 18 then as well.lol I remeber people asking me 'whats good?' and I couldnt answer...Found out she was lying.....Tryna play mind games. Dem thing wont be happening again.. Its double rubbers I dont care how many pills she claims she tookorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrjus dnt f*ck her again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shower Posted January 21, 2008 Report Share Posted January 21, 2008 YeaShe had an abortionto this day got some mad guilt everytime i see her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
time_bomb Posted January 22, 2008 Report Share Posted January 22, 2008 ive had 3.1 became a miscarriage1 disappeared to egypt1 is my beautiful daughter, the best mistake of my life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Messy Posted January 22, 2008 Report Share Posted January 22, 2008 1 is my beautiful daughter, the best mistake of my life. that is so sweet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Realz. Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 Once.Never again.Staring at the walls and mumbling at the same time aint a good look.sorry, had to laugh....especially at the mumbling part....babies can do that to a brother! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Em Dott Posted January 23, 2008 Report Share Posted January 23, 2008 Once and never f*cking again. But then I use every damn thing because my family is so damn fertile. Pill, condoms, got a phram as well.LOLsh*t. Must be like f*cking a small cardboard box. Man isn't feeling anything what so ever.Me personally, the closest I've come was my girl stuggling to get the morning after pill after New Years. Clock was ticking, and time was running out. Got it though, and no babies to this day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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