Dadinho Posted February 8, 2008 Report Share Posted February 8, 2008 as i said black girls are only going white cos they CANT find a good black manI dont know about ONLY 'going white' because of thatExample: Im checking a black girl right now (Im white), she tells me about every guy that tries moving to her (all black), and (no homo) but I would have thought they had more of a chance than me, but yet Im the only guy f*cking her (apparently)Its 2008, race aint as much of a thing anymore Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marlon Posted February 8, 2008 Report Share Posted February 8, 2008 @ DadinhoBoy, I'm not white, but mixed.And the amount of sh*t I got when I dated my ex was immense.I dont even think its a "black girls dont find white guys attractive" ting.I think its a "white guys just half the time dont have the balls to try it with a black chick" ting.*Spuds* Dadinho.No breading, but you're the sort of couple me and my chick would subconsciously clock and half smile/nod as we walked past on the street.Interracials couples gotta stick together inna dis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted February 9, 2008 Report Share Posted February 9, 2008 as i said black girls are only going white cos they CANT find a good black manI dont know about ONLY 'going white' because of thatExample: Im checking a black girl right now (Im white), she tells me about every guy that tries moving to her (all black), and (no homo) but I would have thought they had more of a chance than me, but yet Im the only guy f*cking her (apparently)Its 2008, race aint as much of a thing anymorelisten i like this forum cos i have no idea what colour any of you are unless i go out of my way to break ya speech down but ill tell you thisa girl HAS TO put her man on a pedal stool with things like that you put apparently in brackets so you dont need schoolin im confident ya not a d*ckhead so dont believe the hype of a girls talk on THEM LEVELS.boy ill admit it im racist fam when i see a mixed couple i dont care about it like most black girls do but i wouldnt MIX with them like flex and roll deep just feels weird to me not to say i bun man that do it thats you ennit do ya thing but its not something i would do and its not even how i was raised either my pops tells me he dont mind if i was with a white chick but i still wouldnt and as for my kids thats their business but like i said before im not rollin deep with you.oil and water fam. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted February 9, 2008 Report Share Posted February 9, 2008 cha Frustrated with the âshortageâ of âgoodâ black men, black women are expanding their horizons and are dating outside of their race.Statistics show that more black women are dating white men worldwide, and black female/white male marriages have increased by fifty per cent. Some argue that this increase in relationships between black women and white men may be attributed to educational attainment. "Some black men will look at you a certain way. They know that you have a lot going on and that they can't play games. Sometimes it's harder to attract black guys when you have a lot going for yourself," says Renea D. Nichols-Nash, author of Coping With Interracial Dating. Oscar-winning actress Whoopi Goldberg, who dates white men, found this to be the case. Black men, she says, have a hard time dealing with a black woman with power. Now, rather than sitting around dreaming about the perfect black man, black women are considering the possibility that âMr. Rightâ could be white. Casting aside reservations about interracial relationships â for some, due to the atrocities committed during slavery â they are beginning to look past race when choosing a potential mate. "I'm not saying that white men are the answer to all our problems," 35-year-old Chantelle Perry says. "I'm just saying that they offer a different solution." Many black women, who are becoming increasingly frustrated as the field of marriageable black men narrows, share Perryâs view. Black men are nearly seven times more likely to be incarcerated than white men, and more than twice as likely to be unemployed. Another arguable reason for black women opting for white men is social environment. Race doesnât matter to Paul Kennedy and Michelle Clarke. Best friends since primary school, they are now in a relationship together. Kennedy is white and Clarke is black. âPeople are finding people with common interests and common perspectives and are putting race aside,â says Clarke, 26, a Middlesex University graduate who works at Barclayâs Bank. Clarke and her friends are among the new generation of black females that are opting to date outside of their race due to their social environment. Like Clarke, the majority of young people have friends or acquaintances of different races and nationalities, and are seen as more tolerant and open-minded than previous generations. Unlike their parents and grandparents, todayâs teens and twenty-somethings have grown up hearing the buzzwords âdiversity,â âmulticulturalâ and âinclusionâ, and are used to seeing interracial friendship and romance portrayed in films and on TV â especially in soap operas and adverts. âI donât see colour as an issue,â states Clarke. âWe have been very happy together and apart from a few isolated incidents, we have not experienced any open hostility towards our relationship.â Admitting that at first her parents disapproved â she was told while growing up never to come home with a white man â Clarke explains that her parents have come to accept her relationship decision because she would not back down, and Kennedy has proved his commitment to her and, most importantly, her family. âI come from a stereotypical Caribbean black family and I am the first Clarke to date a white person,â she says. âAt first my parents were dead against my relationship with Paul, but our commitment towards one another has outshined any doubts.â Clarke, who lives with her parents, says that her three-year relationship with her present partner is no different to previous ones with black men. âI donât believe being with Paul is any different from any of my past relationships. Being with Paul feels so natural because we have known each other for years, and I do believe that one of the secrets to a successful relationship is friendship.â Asked whether sex is different, Clarke says: âNo! Why should it be?â However, 25 year-old Simone Thomas from south west London found it difficult to enjoy an intimate relationship with dates of a different race from her own. âBelieve it or not I have tried to have a physical relationship with several white men, but when it came down to the bedroom action I could not see it through.â âI know it sounds crazy saying it out loud. Trust me, Iâm an educated woman, but whenever I saw their private parts I was totally put off sleeping with them.â Asked if it had anything to do with size, Thomas responds: âNo, not really. It was just the colour, and all the black men I have dated have been circumcised and the white men were not.â Cultural differences and religious beliefs are some of the reasons why numerous black women are reluctant to date outside their race. âLife is hard enough without having to add any unnecessary stress. I just want a man that I can relate to,â declares Charlene Clifford from north London. âA man that will know and understand me, and vice versa. Dating a white man would just be too complicated.â Historically within the black community, people are more used to seeing black men dating white women. Black men as a group are three times more likely to date and marry white women. But black women are now exercising their options like their brothers. âRace is becoming less of a deal in dating. People want to explore their choices,â says Adam White, author of The Interracial Dating Book for Black Women Who Want to Date White Men and The White Man's Guide To Dating Black Women. âAs scary as this may sound, there are more black women than there are black men, which means there are a lot fewer black men available for relationships,â White adds. âThis is mainly due to early deaths, prolonged incarceration, homosexuality, unemployment and marriage to white women or other races. It is a common refrain to hear black women complain that there are âno good Black menâ in their social universes. âBlack women are fed up of waiting for a black Mr. Right to come along and now want to explore dating outside their racial box. Black women are now thinking âwhatâs good for the goose is good for the ganderâ, and like black men they are exploring their options.â Events manager and mother of two Kerry Jones, views herself as a ânew age black womanâ, who decided to marry a white man because she felt that she could not find somebody compatible for her to date within her own race. âLetâs be real, if you are a successful black woman you only have two choices: date outside of your race or date other successful black women. And because Iâm not a lesbian, I went for the first option,â says Jones, who lives in Surrey. The 35-year-old adds: âI love black men. My father is black, I have dated black men all my life, and if I have a male child he will be part black, but many black men my age are just not suitable for marriage. âBlack men over the years have become less and less of value to black women like me, because while us black women have progressed on to higher levels they have stayed the same. Not all, but most.â Married to her white husband for six years, Jones says: âA black man in my position wouldn't do it, so why should I? My husband and I will raise our mixed race boys together so hopefully he will be a worthy choice for worthy black women. Not the only choice, or âthere's nothing better out there so I'll settle for thisâ choice. âWhen you are successful you want the best. The best food, clothes, places to live etc. I want the best man also.â Angered by statements that black men are failures, Jamilla Staples from south London says: âAll races have good or bad and I get really annoyed when black women rubbish black men. Yes, Iâm married to a white man, but not because I look down on black men but because I fell in love.â Staples has been married for fourteen years to her husband Sam, and together they are coming to terms with being parents of mixed race children. âWhen I met Sam at work it was instant attraction for both of us. Iâm not one of these women that hate on black men just because Iâm with a white guy. Sam in one word is âgreatâ and both of our families have gone out of their way to make us both feel comfortable when we are around.â Staples says that initially her parents wondered if she knew what she was doing â they sat her down and gave her a speech. But, seeing how happy she was led them to eventually accept the relationship. âIâm still very much black and keep in touch with my blackness. I donât need to apologise for my ethnicity because that is what Sam loves â Iâm a black woman,â Staples says. âSam and I have two children and after the birth of each of our kids I decided to save my hair, which is part of ancient African female custom after childbirth. Keeping true to my blackness is vital because I have kids and it is important for them to know who they are. âOf course there are some differences, but not enough for our relationship not to work. We both listen to the same music and enjoy the same food. In fact, Sam cooks better jerk chicken then I do!â She adds: âWe have gone past the stares and the looks from people in the streets, I think, because we really just look like a relaxed couple. âIn the beginning, a lot of black men used to question my relationship. But over the years more and more couples like myself have become a part of the English norm.âBLACK MEN GET FIRST PICKINGS DONT FORGET THATf*ck what anyone says a girls ideology if she is black is with a black man and is only the other way if she is TRYING to prise herself away from it or she grew up like trisha goddard.no disrespect to you white dudes but girls are FOLLOWERS like pigeons even white chicks KNOW a black man is like a madalion so know the ledge. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Numero001 Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Since becoming a daily commuter I've come to the conclusion that Black women have the longest shelf life. White woman look all old and haggered by the time they reach early 30s. Saw one woman that I estimate was about 60 suttin myabe early 70s (but I doubt it) and she looked like she'd been dead for the last 3 years. Her hair was shocking to say the least and she was in desperate need for at least 2 facelifts just to look 60 suttin. It was a site.I look at Black woman of the same age and certain times I think "I'd bend that over now" let alone when I get to them ages. sh*t! Some sexy Black MILFs about. One yesterday have the biggest chest of the day yesterday, maybe outside of the bra it would have been different stories, but as Chris Rock described them you'd be in them and lose all track of time. She was an older lady but looked fresh and good for how old I think she was. She could have looked older than her actual age being that I never asked her but I'm good at guessing ages.If I have a White girl I'm asking her when she started using anti-wrinkle cream just after I ask whats her occupation Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
McLovin' Jones Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Since becoming a daily commuter I've come to the conclusion that Black women have the longest shelf life. White woman look all old and haggered by the time they reach early 30s. Saw one woman that I estimate was about 60 suttin myabe early 70s (but I doubt it) and she looked like she'd been dead for the last 3 years. Her hair was shocking to say the least and she was in desperate need for at least 2 facelifts just to look 60 suttin. It was a site.I look at Black woman of the same age and certain times I think "I'd bend that over now" let alone when I get to them ages. sh*t! Some sexy Black MILFs about. One yesterday have the biggest chest of the day yesterday, maybe outside of the bra it would have been different stories, but as Chris Rock described them you'd be in them and lose all track of time. She was an older lady but looked fresh and good for how old I think she was. She could have looked older than her actual age being that I never asked her but I'm good at guessing ages.If I have a White girl I'm asking her when she started using anti-wrinkle cream just after I ask whats her occupationCo-sign to the fullest... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Since becoming a daily commuter I've come to the conclusion that Black women have the longest shelf life. White woman look all old and haggered by the time they reach early 30s. Saw one woman that I estimate was about 60 suttin myabe early 70s (but I doubt it) and she looked like she'd been dead for the last 3 years. Her hair was shocking to say the least and she was in desperate need for at least 2 facelifts just to look 60 suttin. It was a site.I look at Black woman of the same age and certain times I think "I'd bend that over now" let alone when I get to them ages. sh*t! Some sexy Black MILFs about. One yesterday have the biggest chest of the day yesterday, maybe outside of the bra it would have been different stories, but as Chris Rock described them you'd be in them and lose all track of time. She was an older lady but looked fresh and good for how old I think she was. She could have looked older than her actual age being that I never asked her but I'm good at guessing ages.If I have a White girl I'm asking her when she started using anti-wrinkle cream just after I ask whats her occupationJoker! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flojo Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Its true that black people tend to age very well, mediteranean people also tend to age well. But as for the whole issue I don't discriminate.I would much rather have a good relationship with a woman of a different race than have a relationship with a black gyal which is just ok. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Seriouss Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Black don't crack??I just hope some of daddies genes have blessed me, he's 55 and still looks very young. Mum is looking good too but people always say 'How much younger than you is Will' when he is 5 years older. lolAnnoys her. ha ha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Gayle Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Tis true, my mum and gran look nuff young.I have noticed white ppl age bad, even ppl who went my skool looked well oldIs a bit annoying though whenn ppl are like "Are you really 27" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Tis true, my mum and gran look nuff young.I have noticed white ppl age bad, even ppl who went my skool looked well oldIs a bit annoying though whenn ppl are like "Are you really 27"Yh most ppl dont believe my mum is touching 50, she looks young and dont dress like no old fogey.Yh pure ppl from school look a bit haggered, especially some of the boys. Or the girls who've got fat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
McLovin' Jones Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 How can people think my Mum is my older sister?LolCrazy... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 How can people think my Mum is my older sister?LolCrazy...Your mum looks OVER young! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
McLovin' Jones Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 How can people think my Mum is my older sister?LolCrazy...Your mum looks OVER young!You met her innit, just remembered! Lol... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 How can people think my Mum is my older sister?LolCrazy...Your mum looks OVER young!You met her innit, just remembered! Lol...Cos i'm special like that.I kid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soca Junkie Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Opra mentioned the whole ''black don't crack theory'' on her show one time lol. My aunty is soon enough abaat to touch 50... people think she's in her early 30's Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Black don't crack??I just hope some of daddies genes have blessed me, he's 55 and still looks very young. Mum is looking good too but people always say 'How much younger than you is Will' when he is 5 years older. lolAnnoys her. ha ha lolthats cos black dont crack. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 On a real dont get it twisted though.Black skin ages VERY well, but I seen bare black gyal in their 20's look like they are in their 40's.Even PURE of them on myspace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
X-T Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 On a real dont get it twisted though.Black skin ages VERY well, but I seen bare black gyal in their 20's look like they are in their 40's.Even PURE of them on myspace.We had one in sec school named her Crypt Keeper. My guess she was an FOB who lowered her age to get in though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 On a real dont get it twisted though.Black skin ages VERY well, but I seen bare black gyal in their 20's look like they are in their 40's.Even PURE of them on myspace.We had one in sec school named her Crypt Keeper. My guess she was an FOB who lowered her age to get in though.LOLWe had a couple of them in school as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 Crypt Keeper ya na lmfaoSecondary school >>>>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colin Turnover Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 I apparently have the following: - dark skinbrowningmixedwhite girl on rotation, so I can't say I discriminate. But my wish is for a criss browning, naturally. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipset Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 i dont dissagree with you famas i said black girls are only going white cos they CANT find a good black man which means their FIRST choice is a black man so guys like mike keane have so much choice which is why he is so miserable right now cos its no longer a challenge as these girls are after him like discounts lv bags as its hard to find.I would never resort to this still Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 i dont dissagree with you famas i said black girls are only going white cos they CANT find a good black man which means their FIRST choice is a black man so guys like mike keane have so much choice which is why he is so miserable right now cos its no longer a challenge as these girls are after him like discounts lv bags as its hard to find.I would never resort to this stillMaybe not you but some black girls are partial to white men still. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipset Posted February 13, 2008 Report Share Posted February 13, 2008 i dont dissagree with you famas i said black girls are only going white cos they CANT find a good black man which means their FIRST choice is a black man so guys like mike keane have so much choice which is why he is so miserable right now cos its no longer a challenge as these girls are after him like discounts lv bags as its hard to find.I would never resort to this stillMaybe not you but some black girls are partial to white men still.True stories, one of my bredrins is on this*Never forgets the day she showed me a pic of him .. had to just go .. "ahh, he's cute" .. This time now, dude was 20 suttin but looked 40* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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