smaddy Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 who here has real serious, not talkin to members of your family ever againi kno a lot of people got beef with their dadsbut what about cousins, brothers, sisters2 of my cousins dont talk, i can see why, one a dem is a prick and the other one is stubbornbut what im sayin theyre cousins at the end of the day, you dont have to be best friends but you can talk and be civil because i think when it comes to family events it puts a strain on everyone kind ofthat side of my family is kinda large and i dont like all a dem by far, but i wouldnt give it upmy brother is happy to not stay in contact with no one on both sides regardless whether they done him something or not, i think that is so wronghe ain seen my grandparents in like 5 yrs now, and they keep askin me if they did him something and i dunno what to sayso feuds?relationships with extended family?what are urs like? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Train Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 I havent PERSONALLY, but my parents have certain issues with a couple of family members that they have tried to sort out on numerous occations over the years, to no avail, so now they have parted ways. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djbmc Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 yeah, a lot of my family live in london, it's not so much a feud but after a while of living in margate we stopped visiting them and eventually lost contact, i haven't got a clue wot any of them r doing now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Em Dott Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 You can't always say it's as easy as being family that they talk again. Some stuff some people have told me is f*cked, and I would under no circumstances converse with that person unless I was about to tuck them in.Closest Ive come to a serious feud is me and my dad. When man was in the hospital, and I saw him teh first time, he was such a complete and utter d*ckhead, I said to my sister when we left I'm not going back to see him and I have nothing to say to him ever, and believe me at the time I meant every single word. Don't really have a big family, so if there's problems, it's in my immediate fam. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ch33kyWun Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 I speak to none of my cousin's on my father's side. They're all either money grabbing yardies, jailbirds or/and thieves.At family functions, I'll be civil and might even say hello and past the potato salad along. But if they ever try and talk to me, I get up and move along.My mother doesn't speak to my Dad's sisters. They keep in contact with my dad's ex's "just in case." I gave these women a piece of mind at Christmas though. My aunt jumped up and down, when my Grandfather gave her a cheque. He gave my little sisters money, my cousins and so forth; none to the adults. He said, "I'm not giving money to those who work." I was like cool. But my Aunt, the Wasteman, jumped up and down like I got money i got money, in front of her daughter. I said out loud, "She should be ashamed of the fact that her niece recieved nothing and she recieved a hand out." Oh how she tried to justify herself. Silly woman. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Train Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 I speak to none of my cousin's on my father's side. They're all either money grabbing yardies, jailbirds or/and thieves.At family functions, I'll be civil and might even say hello and past the potato salad along. But if they ever try and talk to me, I get up and move along.My mother doesn't speak to my Dad's sisters. They keep in contact with my dad's ex's "just in case." I gave these women a piece of mind at Christmas though. My aunt jumped up and down, when my Grandfather gave her a cheque. He gave my little sisters money, my cousins and so forth; none to the adults. He said, "I'm not giving money to those who work." I was like cool. But my Aunt, the Wasteman, jumped up and down like I got money i got money, in front of her daughter. I said out loud, "She should be ashamed of the fact that her niece recieved nothing and she recieved a hand out." Oh how she tried to justify herself. Silly woman.I wanna lick you up and dowwwwwwwwn, till you say stoppp Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Numero001 Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 Aint got a problem with anyone in my family. All a bunch of nice Yardies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Train Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 Aint got a problem with anyone in my family. All a bunch of nice Yardies Whats that about?!?!?!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 who here has real serious, not talkin to members of your family ever againi kno a lot of people got beef with their dadsbut what about cousins, brothers, sisters2 of my cousins dont talk, i can see why, one a dem is a prick and the other one is stubbornbut what im sayin theyre cousins at the end of the day, you dont have to be best friends but you can talk and be civil because i think when it comes to family events it puts a strain on everyone kind ofthat side of my family is kinda large and i dont like all a dem by far, but i wouldnt give it upmy brother is happy to not stay in contact with no one on both sides regardless whether they done him something or not, i think that is so wronghe ain seen my grandparents in like 5 yrs now, and they keep askin me if they did him something and i dunno what to sayso feuds?relationships with extended family?what are urs like?LMFAOYour brother sounds like me, Old Skoool. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 I speak to none of my cousin's on my father's side. They're all either money grabbing yardies, jailbirds or/and thieves.At family functions, I'll be civil and might even say hello and past the potato salad along. But if they ever try and talk to me, I get up and move along.My mother doesn't speak to my Dad's sisters. They keep in contact with my dad's ex's "just in case." I gave these women a piece of mind at Christmas though. My aunt jumped up and down, when my Grandfather gave her a cheque. He gave my little sisters money, my cousins and so forth; none to the adults. He said, "I'm not giving money to those who work." I was like cool. But my Aunt, the Wasteman, jumped up and down like I got money i got money, in front of her daughter. I said out loud, "She should be ashamed of the fact that her niece recieved nothing and she recieved a hand out." Oh how she tried to justify herself. Silly woman.Dem kinda Xmas there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The General Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 I've got beef with my dad since yesterday hes f*cked up so much and had so many chances then he had to sit down with me and my sister yesterday and tell us we had an 11 year old brother that we didnt have a clue about................................................ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted February 4, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 i kno it sounds bad yhaside from the obvious benefits from keepin in touch with your familydo you KNOW HOW MUCH SHIIT YOU CAN GEThook ups, jobs, money, all kinda everythingyour own personal network that you dnt really have to work to hard to get in Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smaddy Posted February 4, 2008 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 I've got beef with my dad since yesterday hes f*cked up so much and had so many chances then he had to sit down with me and my sister yesterday and tell us we had an 11 year old brother that we didnt have a clue about................................................i dont know the ins and outs of thiswhether it means hes cheated on ur mum or whateverbut aside from that, i cant understand why people arnt happy to have another sibling, its a blessingmy cousins mum and dad split up yrs agomy uncle had another kid, didnt tell no one till he was 2 yrs oldyh hes a fool for keepin it a secret, but be happy innitmy cousin didnt talk to him for time and refused to see her baby brother for a good long timeso immature Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 I've got beef with my dad since yesterday hes f*cked up so much and had so many chances then he had to sit down with me and my sister yesterday and tell us we had an 11 year old brother that we didnt have a clue about................................................Them kinda pops there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ch33kyWun Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 I've got beef with my dad since yesterday hes f*cked up so much and had so many chances then he had to sit down with me and my sister yesterday and tell us we had an 11 year old brother that we didnt have a clue about................................................You see, thats just the type of crap I'm waiting for my dad to come out with. I know he's PROBABLY got two. Let him bring them to my house, and dare try and tell me these are my siblings. I'm ready.I cannot count them family when they are born out of deception and then forced upon me. No, I will not have that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danielle Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 Get on fine with my dad's side. However, when it comes to my mum's side, her sister-in-law & family are VERY sly. I think around 2 years ago, before my grandad's death, she persuaded him to change his will, when he was vulnerable, in order to give all the money that he would have given to us, to her family. Altogether she took over half a mil from us, and her daughter even had the cheek to pretend to be my mum collecting her sets of jewelery from the hospital.We don't speak to them. It came to the point where my parents just go on like they don't know them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Uncle Fargas Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 i got a auntie who i aint seen in years shes on my mums side i dont think she even seen my grandma in yearsi got a feeling that certain cousin my age dont even know about her thats how deep it is i think the only reason i no her is coz when i used to live near wandsworth i used to see her take the 156 bus not even sure if she will recognize me if i ever saw her on street Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gaara Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 My marj has 17 brothers and sisters and only 4 out the lot including her really consider each other as family, therefore its sorta made me not take to them too tuff. But then again thats not really a feud.One of my cousins was shanked by another so they dont talk anymore muchless consider each other family- so at events its sorta tedious. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Benicio del Toney Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 Get on fine with my dad's side. However, when it comes to my mum's side, her sister-in-law & family are VERY sly. I think around 2 years ago, before my grandad's death, she persuaded him to change his will, when he was vulnerable, in order to give all the money that he would have given to us, to her family. Altogether she took over half a mil from us, and her daughter even had the cheek to pretend to be my mum collecting her sets of jewelery from the hospital.We don't speak to them. It came to the point where my parents just go on like they don't know them.Rah.Dem kinda family there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dadinho Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 No feuds.But never talk to any of my cousins or uncles or aunts.And rarely see my parents.I got quite a large family but only really get on with my brother, just clocked this aint normal recently, was a bit depressing still. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Numero001 Posted February 4, 2008 Report Share Posted February 4, 2008 Get on fine with my dad's side. However, when it comes to my mum's side, her sister-in-law & family are VERY sly. I think around 2 years ago, before my grandad's death, she persuaded him to change his will, when he was vulnerable, in order to give all the money that he would have given to us, to her family. Altogether she took over half a mil from us, and her daughter even had the cheek to pretend to be my mum collecting her sets of jewelery from the hospital.We don't speak to them. It came to the point where my parents just go on like they don't know them. Half a what?! Shiiiiit, dem figures der Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JLovely Posted February 5, 2008 Report Share Posted February 5, 2008 Mums side - Don't see two of my mums brothers regularly cos they dont like the fact my mum dont like their partners. Their idiots anyway.I also have a cousin who i dislike and walk past on road.Dads side - Majority are in Barbados, the one's here are bless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stig Posted February 5, 2008 Report Share Posted February 5, 2008 my mum comes from a big family - 1 of 13.when her had just died there was massive fights about who was getting whatconsequently its been around 15 yrs since I've seen one half of my family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bayy Posted February 5, 2008 Report Share Posted February 5, 2008 my mums side is bless, she has 6 siblings and they're real close even tho we're 10 000 miles awaymy dads side however is not so close, he has 3 sisters, 2 of which he dont speak to and i havent seen them since 2000, the other sister hes close wit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scorpzz Posted February 5, 2008 Report Share Posted February 5, 2008 hardly see majority of my fam. they're in another country, both sides. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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