streets. Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 When we meet people (dating) we always front on them. Things that i'm talking about include-:- paying for the date and acting generous- opening the doors and chairs- acting like we're interested in their job- acting a little harder then you really are- saying things like "i love soulful RnB"- (this ones for girls) pretending you like Pro Evo or football (usually by making a bait comment like "my ex used to hate it when i won")Over time once you've settled down with someone your true traits come out, but usually by then the other person has feelings for you so overlook the things you lied about. Is it possible to be yourself from the get-go and actually attract the person your after?honest answers only please. dont want some answer like "im always myself, i never lie" because your the exact kinda person im talking about. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShowermanSamuel Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 I'll delve deeper later on on the subject.But my boy went thru on a 27yr old accountant chick who's an accountant in the City on about £80k a year - He was 20 and told her he was 24. Kept it going for six months then told her. She was cool with it and he's living in her flat with her now.Anything is possible if the girl loves you enough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Rix Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 honest answers only please. dont want some answer like "im always myself, i never lie" because your the exact kinda person im talking about. People like us ACTUALLY exist you know Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mickey Kane Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 Dating initially come like serious job interviews...With me, I tend to show my more negative traits to be honest i.e. mashing then not calling for 1/2 weeks, being rude etc... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grafter Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 honest answers only please. dont want some answer like "im always myself, i never lie" because your the exact kinda person im talking about. People like us ACTUALLY exist you know gerrmehow long can u keep up a pretence?it takes to much effortenough people dont like me, im not gna lie to change their mindthe few people that i do get on with, and like me for me, are 'precious' (for want of a better word) to me[bob marley] the truth is an offence but not a sin[bob] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
L Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 honest answers only please. dont want some answer like "im always myself, i never lie" because your the exact kinda person im talking about. People like us ACTUALLY exist you know gerrmehow long can u keep up a pretence?exactly what i was gonna say Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wavant Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 - saying things like "i love soulful RnB"This made me laugh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wavant Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 This is why if you say you're something you have to actually be it.Dont say you're road when you aint. You will get tested with your girl being around and you will fail miserably.That is a true story. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darkman Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 - saying things like "i love soulful RnB"This made me laugh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O.Man Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 the only thing i can think of is if i am like on a date i maybe over confident and do things i wouldn't do normally, why would i lie about anything? music i listen to is good i swear if you don't like it thats conversation right there and if you do then even better, and i would be interested in there job if its a like first time im hearin about it, i will be generous its not an act but won't let you take the piss, and whats wrong with holdin door open? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
X-T Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 Was thinking about this the other day. Disappointing realisations are not the one. Think smaddy once pointed it out, feeling like you've wasted a huge chunk of time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stig Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 me = definately Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelo Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 When we meet people (dating) we always front on them. Things that i'm talking about include-:- paying for the date and acting generous - I will not pay out of principle. If she offers, I will, If she expects, I will half it. Not long. Dont let yourself get taken for a mug.- opening the doors and chairs - I was brought up not dragged up, I do this anyway- acting like we're interested in their job - If Im interested enough to go on a date with them, I want to find out everything about them...- acting a little harder then you really are - I can see what you mean, but Im not really on the whole "badman impress her" phase. actions > words- saying things like "i love soulful RnB" - no comment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goddaz Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 This is a very good topic streets, I commend youIs it possible to be yourself from the get-go and actually attract the person your after?Yes, it takes time but I've been there. I must stress that I found it only works moretime with chicks of equal mindset i.e you can't get far dealing with a lying chick when your honest. The truth will just repell them.In my experience, these chicks you just tell them what they wanna hear (lie) and its game on.Truth tellers are a minority these days, the majority won't be able to be themselves in the dating capacity coz they let others dictate how they should be/act/move/have etcEgo & self praise that are false compell them to lie.honest answers only please. dont want some answer like "im always myself, i never lie" because your the exact kinda person im talking about.f*ck you lolI pride myself on being myself 24/7/365. I get hated on all the time for being myself.Still When you lie (big or small), your only fooling yourself at the end of the day. You may get the person you fooled by lying but fools you'd both be living is foolland. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goddaz Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 This is why if you say you're something you have to actually be it.Dont say you're road when you aint. You will get tested with your girl being around and you will fail miserably.That is a true story.Real talk bloodI've seen this too many times lolmans getting their jawside tapped coz their false ego jumped out & started runnin it up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goddaz Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 honest answers only please. dont want some answer like "im always myself, i never lie" because your the exact kinda person im talking about. People like us ACTUALLY exist you know gerrmehow long can u keep up a pretence?it takes to much effortenough people dont like me, im not gna lie to change their mindthe few people that i do get on with, and like me for me, are 'precious' (for want of a better word) to me[bob marley] the truth is an offence but not a sin[bob]lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 a bit of exaggeration comes into play from most i imagine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest AnkleMurda Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 Boy, if you keep lying you'll be put to the test and the truth will be exposed.Ain't no future in frontin'. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 well i think people are talkin about lying to one extreme which is beyond what streets is saying i mean we aint talkin about saying your name is omar eps and your a millionaire with a porchewe are talkin about maybe, instead of admitting your a normal chick that just helps out at a youth club a chick is infact tellin us that she is a youth worker and organizes events for kids under sixteen and your in stupid amounts of debt but your frontin like you earn a decent wage and you can afford the petrol in your car.or instead of a guy admitting that he is a shotter he is saying he is a delivery driveror instead of admitting he is a community warden he is saying he is a police manyou get the picture and also people that EXAGGERATE their jobs with gob smacking names as if you should be like WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW THATS COOL"oh im a waste disposal techician" MARf*ckA......... YOU IS A RAG AND BONE MAN OR YOU WORK AS A DUSTBIN MAN FOR SOUTHWARK COUNCIL AND YOU BEEN BOUT TO GET YO ARSE FIRED FOR NOT GOING TO WORK FOR THE LAST 2 WEEKS"oh im a beaty therapist" YOU DO YOUR FRIENDS HAIR FOR DRINK MONEY"oh im studying quantum mechanics and im doing work experience at nasa" NIGGER YOUS A PRICK ON VIP2 FORUM TALKIN BOUT SMASHING CHICKS IN ZANTE AND YOU JUST SAYING YOU COULD GET A JOB WITH NASA TO PEOPLE THAT CALL YOU A PRICK AS A LINE OF DEFENCE.THE f*ck OUTTA HERE WID ALL THAT BULLSHIT B Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FACE OFF Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 come to think of it though if im speechin a girl on msn im not really gonna tell her that im moving to her three online friends and i got a f*ck buddy where i be on holiday at even if she tells me she got a man.just common sense i guess its all about jookin the stats. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Numero001 Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 I'm always me. It may not work all the time but I'm always me. When I first meet you I'll be reserved, but thats just how I am with anyone, potential or not. I appear like a really nice person. Once you get to know me, most of my joke is based on being cheeky and sarcastic so if I'm bussing that at the beginning people may think I'm overly rude.Wouldnt say I'm changing 'cause I'm still me but its just a different side of me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goddaz Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 come to think of it though if im speechin a girl on msn im not really gonna tell her that im moving to her three online friends and i got a f*ck buddy where i be on holiday at even if she tells me she got a man.just common sense i guess its all about jookin the stats.Lmao Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wavant Posted March 13, 2008 Report Share Posted March 13, 2008 come to think of it though if im speechin a girl on msn im not really gonna tell her that im moving to her three online friends and i got a f*ck buddy where i be on holiday at even if she tells me she got a man.just common sense i guess its all about jookin the stats. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest PennyTraitor Posted March 13, 2008 Report Share Posted March 13, 2008 This is why if you say you're something you have to actually be it.Dont say you're road when you aint. You will get tested with your girl being around and you will fail miserably.That is a true story.my nigga. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipset Posted March 13, 2008 Report Share Posted March 13, 2008 Yeah its possible stillObviously you put that little bit of effort to try and impress them at the start, not about being over fake to get some1and lmao at the football one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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