Lieutenant Posted July 4, 2008 Report Share Posted July 4, 2008 This is mainly for the mandem re: how your girlfriend/ex dresses.Obviously it's been quite hot recently and she's all going out in shorts and all this other revealing summer wear, i understand it from her POV shes got nice legs and its hot etc etc but i f*ck*ng hate itAnd when it comes to her going raving she sometimes wear dresses that are a bit too short or a bit too tight for my liking.More time i let sh*t slide because i no im over reacting but couple times i've had to put my foot down and tell her 'nah your not wearing that'I don't wanna be one of them boyfriends who proper control their chicks and make them feel like they have to check with me all the time but at the same time there has to be boundaries.Speak on your experiencesMandem: Been in a similar situation? How do u feel bout it? how did u/she react?Girls: Been in a similar situation? How do u feel bout it? how did u/she react? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest David Braund Posted July 4, 2008 Report Share Posted July 4, 2008 lol @ the wife goin out in anything less than a burkaninja ting when im ere Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrbillion Posted July 4, 2008 Report Share Posted July 4, 2008 Nuthing Less Then A Barney TracksuitEdit* = but still sumtimes theres limits .. has to tell me wat she wearing before she goes out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djbmc Posted July 4, 2008 Report Share Posted July 4, 2008 she can wear wot the f*ck she likes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GOLDIE Posted July 4, 2008 Report Share Posted July 4, 2008 my ex was like thatused to try and tell me i couldn't wear certain things,like either i wear a polo neck in summer or i slice off my tits/back/legs and leave them at home or i aint going out at allannoyed me stillused to tell him alright don't go out topless then initshut him up for a little bitthen there was the time we were going jewell bar and i bought a nice dress,slightly shorter than usual and he tried to rip the hem of it cos i said i'm wearing it same wayobviously by this time im kind of sick of him running comments on every thing i wear and do inithe then tried to throw my make up bag in the toileti threatened to dash his trainers out the windowthe moral of the story is, i duno. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natalie Posted July 4, 2008 Report Share Posted July 4, 2008 I dont go out in next to nothing so its cool.Actually I tell a lie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natalie Posted July 4, 2008 Report Share Posted July 4, 2008 then there was the time we were going jewell bar and i bought a nice dress,slightly shorter than usual and he tried to rip the hem of it cos i said i'm wearing it same wayobviously by this time im kind of sick of him running comments on every thing i wear and do inithe then tried to throw my make up bag in the toileti threatened to dash his trainers out the windowthe moral of the story is, i duno.Oh no he didnt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrbillion Posted July 4, 2008 Report Share Posted July 4, 2008 then there was the time we were going jewell bar and i bought a nice dress,slightly shorter than usual and he tried to rip the hem of it cos i said i'm wearing it same wayobviously by this time im kind of sick of him running comments on every thing i wear and do inithe then tried to throw my make up bag in the toileti threatened to dash his trainers out the windowthe moral of the story is, i duno.Oh no he didnt U Gotta Think It From A boys Point Of View .. As I personally wouldnt like next man watching my girlBut Allow Ripping Dresses ... Das Mad Paranoia ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
X-T Posted July 4, 2008 Report Share Posted July 4, 2008 TnA on display isn't me in the first place. Some of it seems like a yeast infection waiting to happen. The ex did mention though he wasnt fond off the that kind of dressing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natalie Posted July 4, 2008 Report Share Posted July 4, 2008 then there was the time we were going jewell bar and i bought a nice dress,slightly shorter than usual and he tried to rip the hem of it cos i said i'm wearing it same wayobviously by this time im kind of sick of him running comments on every thing i wear and do inithe then tried to throw my make up bag in the toileti threatened to dash his trainers out the windowthe moral of the story is, i duno.Oh no he didnt U Gotta Think It From A boys Point Of View .. As I personally wouldnt like next man watching my girlBut Allow Ripping Dresses ... Das Mad Paranoia ...Yh I understand from a boys point of view esp if your girl is NICE you dont want next man drooling over her and tryna get a piece.But im sorry throwing make up and ripping dresses. He best of bought you that stuff back cus me boy i'd be collecting compensation from him. Jewelery, fav trainers etc whatever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted July 4, 2008 Author Report Share Posted July 4, 2008 she can wear wot the f*ck she likesIf she's wearing something really tight and/or short are you not bothered? if so why not? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lieutenant Posted July 4, 2008 Author Report Share Posted July 4, 2008 my ex was like thatused to try and tell me i couldn't wear certain things,like either i wear a polo neck in summer or i slice off my tits/back/legs and leave them at home or i aint going out at allannoyed me stillused to tell him alright don't go out topless then initshut him up for a little bitthen there was the time we were going jewell bar and i bought a nice dress,slightly shorter than usual and he tried to rip the hem of it cos i said i'm wearing it same wayobviously by this time im kind of sick of him running comments on every thing i wear and do inithe then tried to throw my make up bag in the toileti threatened to dash his trainers out the windowthe moral of the story is, i duno.thanks for your valuable input Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dotcomma Posted July 4, 2008 Report Share Posted July 4, 2008 More time she knows the boundries so its not really a problem. She always has sutting to say when im rocking a vest tho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Risky Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 dont care what she dressesas long as it satisfies me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Axiom Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 yh this has happened before in past relationships several times, pisses me off. but sometimes u just have to let it slide.but there have been times when arguments took place over it, for dresses or a certain theme at a rave and she wants to wear some next sh*t. once i just took the dress and dashed it. another time i raised my hand. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wavant Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 Every now and again = Cool. Infact I love it.All the time week in week out = What are you doing?Been in one of them situations before and it was infuriating. She was pissed of course and came with the dumb "Oh I been working all week and its the weekend man and I wanna go all out. The girls are doing it as well" argument. I can understand that but she wasn't trying to hear my POV which inevitably lead to her dance being done. An hour and a half of flawless well constructed sentences filled with fact and venom I REPEAT...Her dance was DONE. Girl didn't even go out that weekend :lol:Switch up your swag, it can not be that hard to do?!?! It is possible to feel and look nice and sexy without the lower quadrant of your batty being on display. Making me feel like Gok Wan in your house with clothing suggestions [][] NO HOMO.If you wanna carry on then you can [My bredrin]GO CHUUUCCKKK ORRFFFFFF[/My bredrin]...Am I a d*ckhead? Because quite frankly you look like a whore on advanced scarlet woman Jedi training.Not only that, you will be making ME look like the biggest mook on ends. Man aint a mook (No Dizzee). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
L Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 The ex did mention though he wasnt fond off the that kind of dressing.Lol @ him saying that to you but then when he's with his bredrin he's staring at them rating them out of 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ephren Taylor Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 Relationhips based on trust...If you dont have that fundamental requirement...it'll never work...I'd make suggestions, if I think my girls outfit looks bad, or give my opinion etc... But never tell her she aint doing something because of my insecurities.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jellybone Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 Relationhips based on trust...If you dont have that fundamental requirement...it'll never work...I'd make suggestions, if I think my girls outfit looks bad, or give my opinion etc... But never tell her she aint doing something because of my insecurities..aw Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Realz. Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 dont care what she dressesas long as it satisfies meco-sign! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Taurus Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 lol @ letting her go raving on her ones Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supernova Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 Not about my wife dressing up in them invitational ways Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest PennyTraitor Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 lol @ the wife goin out in anything less than a burkaninja ting when im eredouble lol at her going out when ur not there or without a chaperone. slippin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Christophe-Michel Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 Every now and again = Cool. Infact I love it.All the time week in week out = What are you doing?Been in one of them situations before and it was infuriating. She was pissed of course and came with the dumb "Oh I been working all week and its the weekend man and I wanna go all out. The girls are doing it as well" argument. I can understand that but she wasn't trying to hear my POV which inevitably lead to her dance being done. An hour and a half of flawless well constructed sentences filled with fact and venom I REPEAT...Her dance was DONE. Girl didn't even go out that weekend :lol:Switch up your swag, it can not be that hard to do?!?! It is possible to feel and look nice and sexy without the lower quadrant of your batty being on display. Making me feel like Gok Wan in your house with clothing suggestions [][] NO HOMO.If you wanna carry on then you can [My bredrin]GO CHUUUCCKKK ORRFFFFFF[/My bredrin]...Am I a d*ckhead? Because quite frankly you look like a whore on advanced scarlet woman Jedi training.Not only that, you will be making ME look like the biggest mook on ends. Man aint a mook (No Dizzee).Man obliterated the thread...I'm creasin'... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lofa Posted July 5, 2008 Report Share Posted July 5, 2008 Every now and again = Cool. Infact I love it.All the time week in week out = What are you doing?Been in one of them situations before and it was infuriating. She was pissed of course and came with the dumb "Oh I been working all week and its the weekend man and I wanna go all out. The girls are doing it as well" argument. I can understand that but she wasn't trying to hear my POV which inevitably lead to her dance being done. An hour and a half of flawless well constructed sentences filled with fact and venom I REPEAT...Her dance was DONE. Girl didn't even go out that weekend :lol:Switch up your swag, it can not be that hard to do?!?! It is possible to feel and look nice and sexy without the lower quadrant of your batty being on display. Making me feel like Gok Wan in your house with clothing suggestions [][] NO HOMO.If you wanna carry on then you can [My bredrin]GO CHUUUCCKKK ORRFFFFFF[/My bredrin]...Am I a d*ckhead? Because quite frankly you look like a whore on advanced scarlet woman Jedi training.Not only that, you will be making ME look like the biggest mook on ends. Man aint a mook (No Dizzee).Man obliterated the thread...I'm creasin'... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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