Ankle Murda Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 i asked because lately i have been hearing women need to know their role etc etc. if i have been getting it wrong what do you define as thir 'role'? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MARLO STANSFIELD Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 i asked because lately i have been hearing women need to know their role etc etc. if i have been getting it wrong what do you define as thir 'role'?depend on the topic could be about links or wifey or just women full stop so there is no answer for you til ya too specific anyway the dream team have left and im the only one shooting jump shots so im gone its not fun anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missBee Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 i have always wondered when kids go school and school finishes at 3.30 and the parents finish work at 5.30 what will happen? cos both parties dont wanna give up their job.Nanny time...lol. well, in some cases it's after school club then nanny time.THAT MEANS THISkids should be in bed on a school night by 9 latest so ya gonna pick up ya kids from the after school club by say 6.30 so every day after school ya got 2hours 30 minutes with ya child daily. (who is making dinner by the way cos both parents were at work?)and lets face it morning time is NOT bonding time for anyone as most dont have breakfast at the table and are busy warring for their turn to use the shower so basically on a school day and working day (5 days of the week and maybe more that that if you work six days which means more baby sitting.so for a great part of the week ya kids are learning from WHO and parring with WHO and learning WHAT? and dont tell me bout weekends cos you women are OVER SOCIAL and have two phones etc and maybe tired and for at least ONE of those days the kids should be out interacting with other kid away from the parents so they dont seem like sheltered kids.MY son was at an after school club and a breakfast one from his school YET his mum owed them like 2 and half grand (how i dont know cos social are apparently supposed to pay for that im told)when i found out it cost money i just cut my hours and picked him up myself the boy can can make breakfast himself in my yard and i aint paying for someone to pick him up and feed him nonsense when he can be with ME i get less loot but im alright financially to just low the hustle and bustle and do whats importantmy point is that is not good for a child for them to not be that interactive with at least ONE parent in the week one of which should be his parent.NOT GOOD AT ALL you may as well say ya school is raising ya child.me and my mum were discussing this not too long ago. There's a child at my sister's school rarely see's her parents. smh.It's not about your child being closer with the after/before school club teachers and nanny than they are with you.there is this chinese girl at my uni. her mum and dad are both business people. so they travel and work nearly 24/7 and she told me she was in boarding school from when she was small. then she got sent to uni here in the uk and they had never called her since she came. she was so upset on her birthday because none of them called. and she stays here during the short holidays and stuff. actually broke my heart. she is such a sweet girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted July 30, 2008 Author Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Thus, women should know their roll and shut their mouths tbh. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
General Mac Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Men have been able to cook ever since the dawn of mankind so that sharing cooking, cleaning responsibilities is useless. It's mostly western men that don't cook much because where is the time to cook when your doing the day shift and the night shift, kids be living on boiled eggs and noodles while mum works because she maxed out her credit card or because she wants some pointless bag. Don't work for now, work for the future, kids are far much more important than material things, and annual pay shouldn't hinder your kids upbringing. I know families that live off 40 grand per year between both parents, Mum at 12,000 dad at 20+ and things work pretty fine as long as the goal is future. Most parents refuse to accept the fact that once you breed children your life is SECONDARY to your childrens, you must suffer in order for them not to, if that wasnt the case then children would be born with triple digit IQs and 6ft tall with strong bodies.Missbee and Batman, do you not think that women in the UK, USA, FRANCE and western countries, that their complaints are completely useless in comparison to how women in Africa, Arabia, Asia live? Have you seen how Muslim women live in Muslim countries? or how African women in less westernized countries live? If so then do you not think you are damn lucky to have the rights you have?Womens needs are far too vast to satisfy.Men we need the simplest of things from our partners. Sex, Food, Love, Care and all the automatic things in a relationship/marriage. Women on the other hand.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Badman Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 f*ck career women. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
General Mac Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 i have always wondered when kids go school and school finishes at 3.30 and the parents finish work at 5.30 what will happen? cos both parties dont wanna give up their job.Nanny time...lol. well, in some cases it's after school club then nanny time.THAT MEANS THISkids should be in bed on a school night by 9 latest so ya gonna pick up ya kids from the after school club by say 6.30 so every day after school ya got 2hours 30 minutes with ya child daily. (who is making dinner by the way cos both parents were at work?)and lets face it morning time is NOT bonding time for anyone as most dont have breakfast at the table and are busy warring for their turn to use the shower so basically on a school day and working day (5 days of the week and maybe more that that if you work six days which means more baby sitting.so for a great part of the week ya kids are learning from WHO and parring with WHO and learning WHAT? and dont tell me bout weekends cos you women are OVER SOCIAL and have two phones etc and maybe tired and for at least ONE of those days the kids should be out interacting with other kid away from the parents so they dont seem like sheltered kids.MY son was at an after school club and a breakfast one from his school YET his mum owed them like 2 and half grand (how i dont know cos social are apparently supposed to pay for that im told)when i found out it cost money i just cut my hours and picked him up myself the boy can can make breakfast himself in my yard and i aint paying for someone to pick him up and feed him nonsense when he can be with ME i get less loot but im alright financially to just low the hustle and bustle and do whats importantmy point is that is not good for a child for them to not be that interactive with at least ONE parent in the week one of which should be his parent.NOT GOOD AT ALL you may as well say ya school is raising ya child.me and my mum were discussing this not too long ago. There's a child at my sister's school rarely see's her parents. smh.It's not about your child being closer with the after/before school club teachers and nanny than they are with you.there is this chinese girl at my uni. her mum and dad are both business people. so they travel and work nearly 24/7 and she told me she was in boarding school from when she was small. then she got sent to uni here in the uk and they had never called her since she came. she was so upset on her birthday because none of them called. and she stays here during the short holidays and stuff. actually broke my heart. she is such a sweet girl.That's a sad story, basically her Biological parents are more or less her friends who happen to have given birth to her. Sad Story. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted July 30, 2008 Author Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Not even friends, more like 3rd cousins really. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Wavy Davy Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 career women holla at me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted July 30, 2008 Author Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Career women must suck certain CEOs d*cks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kurious Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 there always that 1 kidand their parent was like 60try style it as their grandad/mumsmh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ankle Murda Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 there always that 1 kidand their parent was like 60try style it as their grandad/mumsmhOne time infront of one of my white bredrin's mum, I assumed she was his grandmother. I can tell I somehow touched a nerve, I felt so bad, but you can't blame me for that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steven Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 I love women that have ambition and drivebut just know your role as a mother and wife HAS to come before your career. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted July 30, 2008 Author Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 there always that 1 kidand their parent was like 60try style it as their grandad/mumsmhLOL this is true.Hold tight a certain mc who used to try tell me his dad was his granddad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JGGB Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Prostitutes are Career Women, innit... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted July 30, 2008 Author Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 LOLNo, they can have time for their kids..........just not at night ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest LOGers Posted August 1, 2008 Report Share Posted August 1, 2008 Just wanted to drop in on this topic and share my views quickly.TBH MissBee I think you're being way too idealistic.As a woman, I dont think I can personally juggle both a career and coordinating a household with my husband and children successfully. I will never be able to give both my best, and IMO family must come first every single time.TBH I feel very pissed about the way I planned my life, when I was younger all I wanted was to be a doctor so thats what I strived for.Now that I'm in the process of getting there do I realise what I've got myself in for, do I realise how much it could jeopardise my main purpose of parental/wife status...Which is why now I'm looking to other avenues of making a success of myself which would not take me away from my kids...f*ck having 0000000's in the bank whilst my kids are being raised by some nanny...it must never be that time...I was raised by my mum and so the pattern must continue.There's some women who say ''its the 21st century, women can have it all'' but these are the same women that say women and men are equal, and 'why are we hoes if we sleep around?'IMO these women are DAZED AND CONFUSED. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Q Posted August 1, 2008 Report Share Posted August 1, 2008 i really really dont understand by what you mean by they are equivalent to wastemanhow is wanting a good life for your family and yourself selfish????If you don't see why 'career women' are selfish, I feel sorry for your future.BLACK career women, don't make it. f*ck what ya been told.what do you view as a career woman then? because we might have different definitions hereWomen don't focus on their careers for the same reason men do. They don't do it to accumulate wealth for them and their families unlike men.See, MEN grind for themselves & family.Women do it for themselves only. Women nowadays have this complex where you want to be like us, not realising you have a f*ckin' role and you must abide to it. Not saying women can't go out and make a life for themselves but don't let it interfere with your role. And don't be naive to think you can do BOTH FFS, because something WILL suffer whether it be the kids or your job.Very good point. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted August 1, 2008 Author Report Share Posted August 1, 2008 Just wanted to drop in on this topic and share my views quickly.TBH MissBee I think you're being way too idealistic.As a woman, I dont think I can personally juggle both a career and coordinating a household with my husband and children successfully. I will never be able to give both my best, and IMO family must come first every single time.TBH I feel very pissed about the way I planned my life, when I was younger all I wanted was to be a doctor so thats what I strived for.Now that I'm in the process of getting there do I realise what I've got myself in for, do I realise how much it could jeopardise my main purpose of parental/wife status...Which is why now I'm looking to other avenues of making a success of myself which would not take me away from my kids...f*ck having 0000000's in the bank whilst my kids are being raised by some nanny...it must never be that time...I was raised by my mum and so the pattern must continue.There's some women who say ''its the 21st century, women can have it all'' but these are the same women that say women and men are equal, and 'why are we hoes if we sleep around?'IMO these women are DAZED AND CONFUSED.Gun f*ck*ng shot in the air :!: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ankle Murda Posted August 1, 2008 Report Share Posted August 1, 2008 Just wanted to drop in on this topic and share my views quickly.TBH MissBee I think you're being way too idealistic.As a woman, I dont think I can personally juggle both a career and coordinating a household with my husband and children successfully. I will never be able to give both my best, and IMO family must come first every single time.TBH I feel very pissed about the way I planned my life, when I was younger all I wanted was to be a doctor so thats what I strived for.Now that I'm in the process of getting there do I realise what I've got myself in for, do I realise how much it could jeopardise my main purpose of parental/wife status...Which is why now I'm looking to other avenues of making a success of myself which would not take me away from my kids...f*ck having 0000000's in the bank whilst my kids are being raised by some nanny...it must never be that time...I was raised by my mum and so the pattern must continue.There's some women who say ''its the 21st century, women can have it all'' but these are the same women that say women and men are equal, and 'why are we hoes if we sleep around?'IMO these women are DAZED AND CONFUSED.Marry me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted August 1, 2008 Author Report Share Posted August 1, 2008 See, Lady Old Gamer knows the deal, but bare stupid girls in this world are f*cked. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest WAVE MACHINE Posted August 1, 2008 Report Share Posted August 1, 2008 logers dun the dance. someone lock this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest WAVE MACHINE Posted August 1, 2008 Report Share Posted August 1, 2008 TBH, the LOGers of the world>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Need to find her a man.who else can c/s this?Lol, what is that supposed to mean...exactly what i said... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nola D Posted August 1, 2008 Report Share Posted August 1, 2008 Just wanted to drop in on this topic and share my views quickly.TBH MissBee I think you're being way too idealistic.As a woman, I dont think I can personally juggle both a career and coordinating a household with my husband and children successfully. I will never be able to give both my best, and IMO family must come first every single time.TBH I feel very pissed about the way I planned my life, when I was younger all I wanted was to be a doctor so thats what I strived for.Now that I'm in the process of getting there do I realise what I've got myself in for, do I realise how much it could jeopardise my main purpose of parental/wife status...Which is why now I'm looking to other avenues of making a success of myself which would not take me away from my kids...f*ck having 0000000's in the bank whilst my kids are being raised by some nanny...it must never be that time...I was raised by my mum and so the pattern must continue.There's some women who say ''its the 21st century, women can have it all'' but these are the same women that say women and men are equal, and 'why are we hoes if we sleep around?'IMO these women are DAZED AND CONFUSED.c/s strong post Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest WAVE MACHINE Posted August 1, 2008 Report Share Posted August 1, 2008 can i jus say missbee isnt THAT young shes like 21/22 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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