Da Luv Doc Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 What are your thought on them?From what I have seen, they basically want a career and only care about a career then in their mid age, they want kids.BUT, is this the reason so many people can't have kids and need to produce the test tube way? Like, it is obvious that in your twenties your body is on for having kids etc etc, but the older you get the harder it is, though, knowing this, they still chose the career.What are your opinions?TBH, having kids before the end of your twenties really should be a standard ting if you don't want problems in the future. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missBee Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 i generally want to concentrate on my career before children and there is a very slim chance that i might have children in my 20s. i would like kids in my 30s. its not as easy as when you are in your 20s but its not so hard either. when i reach 40 without kids then i will know i am in trouble. but science would have advanced then so i know i wont have any problems lol.and i will concentrate on my career but i will also pay attention to my man because i dont want to have to do the test tube business. if my guy wants children we talk it over & see the positives & negetives. because i will not have a baby just cause my man once one but it will be a joint decision. if he cant understand my choice then the relationship will not workso if i am in my 20s i have a good man in his 20s, our relationship s great, we both have good jobs, we can afford to get a house together to house a family, we can afford to support ourselfves and children if we decide to expand our family. THEN i will probably have a baby then as long as we can arrange daycare or nannies because i am not going to be a stay at home mummy around then because i still want to be moving up in my career. then when i get where i want i can probably start being full time mummy & part time career woman because i know i can always go back if i want..but if i am not in a stable relationship with a stable financial state i doubt i will want to bring a baby into the world.i know it might sound like i am just being selfish. but i am thinking about the baby i want it to be happy and not deprived of anything. i am thinking of the baby daddy because i dont want all the financial problems etc to rest on him & jeopadise* our relationship. i am thinking of my mum who would have to take care of my baby for me whilst i work long ours to make extra cash. i am thinking about my family who will have to face my problems with me. and lastly i think about myself because i have dreams which i would want to fulfil and if i decide to start a family i want it to be at the right time so i can be the best i can be.anyways thats what i think & people might think different.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Van Der Wavy Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 f*ck career women. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angelo Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 f*ck career women. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missBee Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 f*ck career women.why? if you dont mind me asking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Van Der Wavy Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 f*ck career women.why? if you dont mind me askingSelfish bitches, that's why..They're the equivalent to men who sit at home, smoke weed, drink Supermalt, watch reruns of Wildin' Out all day...Career women are the equivalent to WASTEMEN... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A Bit Better Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 f*ckin missbee always comes with f*ck*ng essays. I don't like ignoring her every post but I ain't even reading that sh*t! No capital letters, dodgy punctuation. Every damn time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missBee Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 i really really dont understand by what you mean by they are equivalent to wastemanhow is wanting a good life for your family and yourself selfish???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Van Der Wavy Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 i really really dont understand by what you mean by they are equivalent to wastemanhow is wanting a good life for your family and yourself selfish????If you don't see why 'career women' are selfish, I feel sorry for your future.BLACK career women, don't make it. f*ck what ya been told. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missBee Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 f*ckin missbee always comes with f*ck*ng essays. I don't like ignoring her every post but I ain't even reading that sh*t! No capital letters, dodgy punctuation. Every damn time.sorry. just i had a lot to say. and every fullstop is where its meant to be & i even made an attempt at having paragraphs. you dont have to read anyways because you probably wont agree anyways and that is 2mins of your life gone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 career women>>>>>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missBee Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 i really really dont understand by what you mean by they are equivalent to wastemanhow is wanting a good life for your family and yourself selfish????If you don't see why 'career women' are selfish, I feel sorry for your future.BLACK career women, don't make it. f*ck what ya been told.what do you view as a career woman then? because we might have different definitions here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 miss bee why even entertain theese little boysseriously, real woman with a career who likes nice things and knows what she wants and isnt affraid to get it isthe onean also missbee alow the f*ckin essays, less is more Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Em Dott Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 I see where Mike Kane is coming from.Career Women think that they control the main driving force of teh relationship, and when they have children the guy has to agree with otherwisde he's "bad". Why should you chase your dreams whilst the dreams of your partner or placed on hold because he wants to do stuff with you? Every decision whilst in a relationship should ahve your partner in accoutn, irregardless how small, but it should still be part of a deciding factor.Career women in short think too much about progressing themselves and not the relationship, which is why you have black films where they haev a black career woman struggling to find a black man with his sh*t together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Van Der Wavy Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 i really really dont understand by what you mean by they are equivalent to wastemanhow is wanting a good life for your family and yourself selfish????If you don't see why 'career women' are selfish, I feel sorry for your future.BLACK career women, don't make it. f*ck what ya been told.what do you view as a career woman then? because we might have different definitions hereWomen don't focus on their careers for the same reason men do. They don't do it to accumulate wealth for them and their families unlike men.See, MEN grind for themselves & family.Women do it for themselves only. Women nowadays have this complex where you want to be like us, not realising you have a f*ckin' role and you must abide to it. Not saying women can't go out and make a life for themselves but don't let it interfere with your role. And don't be naive to think you can do BOTH FFS, because something WILL suffer whether it be the kids or your job. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 can i jus say alot of black career woman are with career menthink about it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Van Der Wavy Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Malika is a dyke. Her opinion on this is redundant. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Van Der Wavy Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 can i jus say alot of black career woman are with career menthink about itLMFAOReally? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Em Dott Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 i really really dont understand by what you mean by they are equivalent to wastemanhow is wanting a good life for your family and yourself selfish????If you don't see why 'career women' are selfish, I feel sorry for your future.BLACK career women, don't make it. f*ck what ya been told.what do you view as a career woman then? because we might have different definitions hereWomen don't focus on their careers for the same reason men do. They don't do it to accumulate wealth for them and their families unlike men.See, MEN grind for themselves & family.Women do it for themselves only. Women nowadays have this complex where you want to be like us, not realising you have a f*ckin' role and you must abide to it. Not saying women can't go out and make a life for themselves but don't let it interfere with your role. And don't be naive to think you can do BOTH FFS, because something WILL suffer whether it be the kids or your job.Exactly what I was trying to get across. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missBee Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 I see where Mike Kane is coming from.Career Women think that they control the main driving force of teh relationship, and when they have children the guy has to agree with otherwisde he's "bad". Why should you chase your dreams whilst the dreams of your partner or placed on hold because he wants to do stuff with you? Every decision whilst in a relationship should ahve your partner in accoutn, irregardless how small, but it should still be part of a deciding factor.Career women in short think too much about progressing themselves and not the relationship, which is why you have black films where they haev a black career woman struggling to find a black man with his sh*t together.thats why i was saying you talk and discuss. COMMUNICATE. because i might want to make my career work but i also want my relationship with my man to be a good one. but if i still concentrate on my career BUt i still make time for him, i still love him no less BUT i just cant make the decision of having babies so early does that make me a bad person?? is that selfish? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Van Der Wavy Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 I see where Mike Kane is coming from.Career Women think that they control the main driving force of teh relationship, and when they have children the guy has to agree with otherwisde he's "bad". Why should you chase your dreams whilst the dreams of your partner or placed on hold because he wants to do stuff with you? Every decision whilst in a relationship should ahve your partner in accoutn, irregardless how small, but it should still be part of a deciding factor.Career women in short think too much about progressing themselves and not the relationship, which is why you have black films where they haev a black career woman struggling to find a black man with his sh*t together.thats why i was saying you talk and discuss. COMMUNICATE. because i might want to make my career work but i also want my relationship with my man to be a good one. but if i still concentrate on my career BUt i still make time for him, i still love him no less BUT i just cant make the decision of having babies so early does that make me a bad person?? is that selfish?Forget about babies...The relationship by itself will suffer.You think if BOTH of you are on the career ting, that relationship will be bless? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missBee Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 i really really dont understand by what you mean by they are equivalent to wastemanhow is wanting a good life for your family and yourself selfish????If you don't see why 'career women' are selfish, I feel sorry for your future.BLACK career women, don't make it. f*ck what ya been told.what do you view as a career woman then? because we might have different definitions hereWomen don't focus on their careers for the same reason men do. They don't do it to accumulate wealth for them and their families unlike men.See, MEN grind for themselves & family.Women do it for themselves only. Women nowadays have this complex where you want to be like us, not realising you have a f*ckin' role and you must abide to it. Not saying women can't go out and make a life for themselves but don't let it interfere with your role. And don't be naive to think you can do BOTH FFS, because something WILL suffer whether it be the kids or your job.i think thats bull. some women might be selfish but most are not.if i am making my own money its not to belittle my husband. as long as he is not a bum he can do what makes him happy. just because i can have a high flying job does not mean i will f*ck my husband less or not breast feed my children.if i make money its for MY family i always come last. and i want a career so my family is happy and i am happy when they are happy.and i like shopping Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Em Dott Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 Missbee, you said if he's not ready to have kids when you want them, it wasn't meant to work, adn I know for a fact you weren't saying it as you would be to blame.That there says enough that you are thinking about yourself way too much.Like I want a successful career, but I have to take my girl into consideration with how I go about it, and I know whatever I strive to do is not only to provide security for myself but also for my girl and if we have kids. Everything I do right now is progression for me, my girl and if we have them in the near future my children.Answer me this, if you partner was successful in his career would you still try and become a "Career woman"?If you say yes, you know that the relationship will begin to crumble and that was due to your own selfishness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Van Der Wavy Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 f*ckin' ell, females irk me SO MUCH sometimes...Did you really believe all that sh*t you just typed? That's why I appreciate bitches like Soca, LOG and Kurious mayne... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim Posted July 30, 2008 Report Share Posted July 30, 2008 can i jus say alot of black career woman are with career menthink about itLMFAOReally?i forgot the "white" career man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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