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make a clear statement that expresses yur opinion on something. It doesn't have to be controversial just something u honestly believe about love and life.then idealy someone will express y they disagree with yur opinion, and a sensible argument will ensueonly two ruleskeep it relevant - no dropin personal sh*t as a means of making the other person look dumb, as appose to supporting yur argument or disproving theirslisten and respond- if someone makes a point to the detriment of yur argument, dn't ignore it. either show y its faulty or admit that its a good pointlets keep it mature people, and i'm sure if we all listen to each other we'll all enrich our perspective on lifei'll startI believe that many (NOT ALL) men use phrases like "all women are whores" and "lol at trusting women" as excusses to cover up their counter productve mindset.in a world full of whores y are u wifying the girl that u met near the toilets of a club and got her number?in a world full of whores y does it only take u man 3 weeks to wife a girl.... do u think u actually know her? In my 20 years of life i've seriously dealt with 3 girls and entertained about 7 to 8 links who if u asked them at the time would of said that i'm their boyfriend, cuz we got on like datgetting along doesn't mean u should be wifeda lot of guys (on this forum included) have their filtering process all screwed and would give alot of undeserving girls the title of wifymy filtering process can be sumed up like this, if i can't say shes the type of girl that i would marry then i'm not taking her on as something seriousalot of guys are sailing trying to find land complaing about how rough the waters are(and rough they are), but the real problem is their sailing with a f*cked up navigation system... ya dig?

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I see your point.And raise youA shiny charizard100-charizard-star-d.jpgSorry.But on the level, I do see your point.But.You can't use your experiences as a benchmark and expect others to have had the same.In my life I've dealt seriously with (looking back), probably only 3 or 4.And in a lot of them I can see how my immaturity/lack of experience contributed to me misconstruing things/misunderstanding the situations, and causing drama, but I can also see how inherently, all of them shared the same, self interested traits.I think you can make generalisations and look for the diamond in the rough as it were, but you cant escape evolutionary biology. And that is, that women are attracted (what have I done), to power. Power that would come either in Status, Money, Control of a situation (whether it is being more articulate, informed, in the know etc.) thrill, adventure, and so forth.These are traits which are universally desired. If you don't have at least one of these traits in good amount, you're going to be disappointed in one way or another.All women aren't whores, that's just blanket statements which imply something that isn't the case - But in regards to trusting anyone, it is in my opinion valid. Nothing is done without self interest or motivation for the other person. I'm a firm believer in this. Noone is truly selfless.I digressed and got lost along the way but I'm eating a fat turkey sandwhich and trying to down clarithromycin so allow me.

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I believe that many (NOT ALL) men use phrases like "all women are whores" and "lol at trusting women" as excusses to cover up their counter productve mindset.in a world full of whores y are u wifying the girl that u met near the toilets of a club and got her number?in a world full of whores y does it only take u man 3 weeks to wife a girl.... do u think u actually know her? In my 20 years of life i've seriously dealt with 3 girls and entertained about 7 to 8 links who if u asked them at the time would of said that i'm their boyfriend, cuz we got on like datgetting along doesn't mean u should be wifeda lot of guys (on this forum included) have their filtering process all screwed and would give alot of undeserving girls the title of wifymy filtering process can be sumed up like this, if i can't say shes the type of girl that i would marry then i'm not taking her on as something seriousalot of guys are sailing trying to find land complaing about how rough the waters are(and rough they are), but the real problem is their sailing with a f*cked up navigation system... ya dig?
C/S WITH THE HORSE POWER OF 14 BURNT ORANGE LAMBORGHINI'S RACING EACH OTHER DOWN THE M122 Only had 1 WIFEY, Everything else has been a link that outran its expiry date I Honestly think theres alot og legit girls out there, but alot of us guys in out immaturity overlook them cus there either not peng or we find them boringBare man would rather wife a girl they met out in a shoobs who prob linked at least 3 guys from the same rave u drew her cus shes peng & as man dem like to say "Down for me"
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i hear u fambt true stories one mans hoe is another mans queenive only been in one serious relationshipdnt even do links too tough no more, i duno if its the medication or im gettin older bt jumpin from chick to chick right nw dnt do it for mei liked it when it was jus one the sex was more fulfilling (no chick)n i dnt use no rules, thats dumb, if i like a girl im nt gonna put her through some test to see if she's worthy or whatever, i'll just know coz we'd have that kinda connection, i dnt care if i sleep with her after 2 mins or 2 years sometimes the connection is jus there n all these rules do is f*ck u uponly think i look at is history, bt even then that dnt matter coz im come to see the girls i b with aint even had a slaggish past so its really more about if they gt their mind right n if we connect, my ex we could chat n laugh all day bout random sh*t, most chicks wnt even eat infront of me.also if the chicks u f*ck with turn out to be slags then maybe instead of gettin angry at every female u need to check urself and re-evaluate your pick up gamei dnt even pick up or chat up girls, its a mutual ting where we jus meet n randomly buss convo, thats how i know shes what i wantnever a road/club/kebab shop tingmaybe im gettin old, bt i jus cnt f*ck with these immature chicks no more, do my f*ckin head in

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Kebab shop you know.Jesus.I'll be straight though.Twice I've thought I'd finally met a woman that had her head screwed on, was settled, had everything going for her, and was sound.And twice I've had a nasty wake up.It's mad.Polar opposites in terms of friends circles/how we met etc.I genuinely believe it's a right time/place, and how good the person is at manipulating (me in this case). If you can bring out behaviour in people I think anything is possible.This is why I refuse to say someone is loose/a whore etc (in the majority of cases anyway)Because that woman could be anyone who 1000 other people had tried it with, but not hit the correct buttons for her to act that way.Ar this is long and depressing I'm going to fap brb

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I don't see a problem with bowcatting your girl, dunno why people are so against it, seems abit childish to me espesh if you're in your 20sthe jamaican anti gay anti bowcat thing is abit extreme even though im half jamaican myself raised in a jamaican household, just dont agree with it, too much hate for things that dont concern them

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you cant keep complaining about what you allow. no its not 'more than that'you cant change him or her... you were attracted to THAT which u now think u can change? get realto guys (black) who jump at everything being 'homo' know that its your mother/sister u need to convince ur not gay, cos shes the one wondering when last u brought a girl home...not your homies you're able to blend in with. if YOU are able to be trusted since you trust yourself, you are less likely to find it hard to trust others. and just a statement : theres nothing more annoying that a light skin butt ugly girl who is trumped up by llightly seeking guys as the next best thing since eve.

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i'll startI believe that many (NOT ALL) men use phrases like "all women are whores" and "lol at trusting women" as excusses to cover up their counter productve mindset.in a world full of whores y are u wifying the girl that u met near the toilets of a club and got her number?in a world full of whores y does it only take u man 3 weeks to wife a girl.... do u think u actually know her? In my 20 years of life i've seriously dealt with 3 girls and entertained about 7 to 8 links who if u asked them at the time would of said that i'm their boyfriend, cuz we got on like dat
Ting about this idea yeah is that most peoples arguments are comin from opinion so i doubt we gonna come to end result on these debates really but either way ill drop suttin *awaits random people to try argue back for the sake of it* anyways i dont use the phrase all women are whores neither have i directly said lol at trustin women (Not sayin your personally attackin me) but as ive stated on here before, trust i believe is not somethin to be put into blindly. For example: when people have come out of a bad relationship and get into a next one and believe they have to trust this new person the same as the last... I dont get it. Cause if you've ever been betrayed you should of learnt that not everyone is worthy of your trust, so you need to be careful in the future, not givin everyone a clean slate and continually running in blind "cause its not fair" thats how you end up in a vicious cycle. Prime example... Some guy on here was sayin he knows someone who always treats girls nice yet they always treat him bad... Thats because he's foolishly makin the same mistakes over and over again. Now, if he learnt from his mistakes he would tone it down a bit and wait untill he meets a girl worthy of those kinds of special treatment. But he wont because he thinks its wrong to treat one girl different cause of what a previous girl has done him before... Thats where he's going wrong cause he hasnt learnt from his mistake and he's opening himself up to let it be repeated... Yet he's wondering why he cant find the right girl! The truth hurts but more time the answers are right infront of you if you will open your eyes.
I believe that many (NOT ALL) men use phrases like "all women are whores" and "lol at trusting women" as excusses to cover up their counter productve mindset.in a world full of whores y are u wifying the girl that u met near the toilets of a club and got her number?in a world full of whores y does it only take u man 3 weeks to wife a girl.... do u think u actually know her?
I get what ya sayin about this though.Some people make some bad decisions when doin the wifey criteria etc but at the same time i dont agree when people try say if you've been hurt bare times you just keep attractin the wrong kind of person cause at the end of the day you aint gonna only find one type of person all the time... Coincidence? I think not. Plus that contradicts there own arguments when they try and say not all men/women are the same. Real Talk
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i'll startI believe that many (NOT ALL) men use phrases like "all women are whores" and "lol at trusting women" as excusses to cover up their counter productve mindset.in a world full of whores y are u wifying the girl that u met near the toilets of a club and got her number?in a world full of whores y does it only take u man 3 weeks to wife a girl.... do u think u actually know her? In my 20 years of life i've seriously dealt with 3 girls and entertained about 7 to 8 links who if u asked them at the time would of said that i'm their boyfriend, cuz we got on like dat
Ting about this idea yeah is that most peoples arguments are comin from opinion so i doubt we gonna come to end result on these debates really but either way ill drop suttin *awaits random people to try argue back for the sake of it* anyways i dont use the phrase all women are whores neither have i directly said lol at trustin women (Not sayin your personally attackin me) but as ive stated on here before, trust i believe is not somethin to be put into blindly. For example: when people have come out of a bad relationship and get into a next one and believe they have to trust this new person the same as the last... I dont get it. Cause if you've ever been betrayed you should of learnt that not everyone is worthy of your trust, so you need to be careful in the future, not givin everyone a clean slate and continually running in blind "cause its not fair" thats how you end up in a vicious cycle. Prime example... Some guy on here was sayin he knows someone who always treats girls nice yet they always treat him bad... Thats because he's foolishly makin the same mistakes over and over again. Now, if he learnt from his mistakes he would tone it down a bit and wait untill he meets a girl worthy of those kinds of special treatment. But he wont because he thinks its wrong to treat one girl different cause of what a previous girl has done him before... Thats where he's going wrong cause he hasnt learnt from his mistake and he's opening himself up to let it be repeated... Yet he's wondering why he cant find the right girl! The truth hurts but more time the answers are right infront of you if you will open your eyes.
I believe that many (NOT ALL) men use phrases like "all women are whores" and "lol at trusting women" as excusses to cover up their counter productve mindset.in a world full of whores y are u wifying the girl that u met near the toilets of a club and got her number?in a world full of whores y does it only take u man 3 weeks to wife a girl.... do u think u actually know her?
I get what ya sayin about this though.Some people make some bad decisions when doin the wifey criteria etc but at the same time i dont agree when people try say if you've been hurt bare times you just keep attractin the wrong kind of person cause at the end of the day you aint gonna only find one type of person all the time... Coincidence? I think not. Plus that contradicts there own arguments when they try and say not all men/women are the same. Real Talk
Someone once said, or wrote that insanity is : repeating the same action and expecting a different result.
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i'll startI believe that many (NOT ALL) men use phrases like "all women are whores" and "lol at trusting women" as excusses to cover up their counter productve mindset.in a world full of whores y are u wifying the girl that u met near the toilets of a club and got her number?in a world full of whores y does it only take u man 3 weeks to wife a girl.... do u think u actually know her? In my 20 years of life i've seriously dealt with 3 girls and entertained about 7 to 8 links who if u asked them at the time would of said that i'm their boyfriend, cuz we got on like dat
Ting about this idea yeah is that most peoples arguments are comin from opinion so i doubt we gonna come to end result on these debates really but either way ill drop suttin *awaits random people to try argue back for the sake of it* anyways i dont use the phrase all women are whores neither have i directly said lol at trustin women (Not sayin your personally attackin me) but as ive stated on here before, trust i believe is not somethin to be put into blindly. For example: when people have come out of a bad relationship and get into a next one and believe they have to trust this new person the same as the last... I dont get it. Cause if you've ever been betrayed you should of learnt that not everyone is worthy of your trust, so you need to be careful in the future, not givin everyone a clean slate and continually running in blind "cause its not fair" thats how you end up in a vicious cycle. Prime example... Some guy on here was sayin he knows someone who always treats girls nice yet they always treat him bad... Thats because he's foolishly makin the same mistakes over and over again. Now, if he learnt from his mistakes he would tone it down a bit and wait untill he meets a girl worthy of those kinds of special treatment. But he wont because he thinks its wrong to treat one girl different cause of what a previous girl has done him before... Thats where he's going wrong cause he hasnt learnt from his mistake and he's opening himself up to let it be repeated... Yet he's wondering why he cant find the right girl! The truth hurts but more time the answers are right infront of you if you will open your eyes.
I believe that many (NOT ALL) men use phrases like "all women are whores" and "lol at trusting women" as excusses to cover up their counter productve mindset.in a world full of whores y are u wifying the girl that u met near the toilets of a club and got her number?in a world full of whores y does it only take u man 3 weeks to wife a girl.... do u think u actually know her?
I get what ya sayin about this though.Some people make some bad decisions when doin the wifey criteria etc but at the same time i dont agree when people try say if you've been hurt bare times you just keep attractin the wrong kind of person cause at the end of the day you aint gonna only find one type of person all the time... Coincidence? I think not. Plus that contradicts there own arguments when they try and say not all men/women are the same. Real Talk
Someone once said, or wrote that insanity is : repeating the same action and expecting a different result.
was albert einstein still
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i'll startI believe that many (NOT ALL) men use phrases like "all women are whores" and "lol at trusting women" as excusses to cover up their counter productve mindset.in a world full of whores y are u wifying the girl that u met near the toilets of a club and got her number?in a world full of whores y does it only take u man 3 weeks to wife a girl.... do u think u actually know her? In my 20 years of life i've seriously dealt with 3 girls and entertained about 7 to 8 links who if u asked them at the time would of said that i'm their boyfriend, cuz we got on like dat
Ting about this idea yeah is that most peoples arguments are comin from opinion so i doubt we gonna come to end result on these debates really but either way ill drop suttin *awaits random people to try argue back for the sake of it* anyways i dont use the phrase all women are whores neither have i directly said lol at trustin women (Not sayin your personally attackin me) but as ive stated on here before, trust i believe is not somethin to be put into blindly. For example: when people have come out of a bad relationship and get into a next one and believe they have to trust this new person the same as the last... I dont get it. Cause if you've ever been betrayed you should of learnt that not everyone is worthy of your trust, so you need to be careful in the future, not givin everyone a clean slate and continually running in blind "cause its not fair" thats how you end up in a vicious cycle. Prime example... Some guy on here was sayin he knows someone who always treats girls nice yet they always treat him bad... Thats because he's foolishly makin the same mistakes over and over again. Now, if he learnt from his mistakes he would tone it down a bit and wait untill he meets a girl worthy of those kinds of special treatment. But he wont because he thinks its wrong to treat one girl different cause of what a previous girl has done him before... Thats where he's going wrong cause he hasnt learnt from his mistake and he's opening himself up to let it be repeated... Yet he's wondering why he cant find the right girl! The truth hurts but more time the answers are right infront of you if you will open your eyes.
I believe that many (NOT ALL) men use phrases like "all women are whores" and "lol at trusting women" as excusses to cover up their counter productve mindset.in a world full of whores y are u wifying the girl that u met near the toilets of a club and got her number?in a world full of whores y does it only take u man 3 weeks to wife a girl.... do u think u actually know her?
I get what ya sayin about this though.Some people make some bad decisions when doin the wifey criteria etc but at the same time i dont agree when people try say if you've been hurt bare times you just keep attractin the wrong kind of person cause at the end of the day you aint gonna only find one type of person all the time... Coincidence? I think not. Plus that contradicts there own arguments when they try and say not all men/women are the same. Real Talk
You know what Real Talk, I always thought you were high on yourself and up your own ass, im not trying to be funny in being deadly serious and straight talking. But reading that there has just totally swung that opinion of you round man. Its actually hit home with some flaws within myself that I knew exsisted but were hard to put on infront of me to comfront. That whole part about repeating the same action and expecting a different result is exactly what I was a member of. I learnt that before I read this but it took me some time to actually be able to put it out infront of me and analysise it..To be honest most of this thread has coninsided with some realisations i've come to see within the past 3 weeks over a girl and me that have been dancing round the same tree (metaphorically) for nearly 2 years. You learn that treating a girl nice to early will more than likely lead to failure in the future as they become expectant on such actions for doing practially nothing etc another story anyway.
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You know what Real Talk, I always thought you were high on yourself and up your own ass, im not trying to be funny in being deadly serious and straight talking. But reading that there has just totally swung that opinion of you round man. Its actually hit home with some flaws within myself that I knew exsisted but were hard to put on infront of me to comfront. That whole part about repeating the same action and expecting a different result is exactly what I was a member of. I learnt that before I read this but it took me some time to actually be able to put it out infront of me and analysise it..To be honest most of this thread has coninsided with some realisations i've come to see within the past 3 weeks over a girl and me that have been dancing round the same tree (metaphorically) for nearly 2 years. You learn that treating a girl nice to early will more than likely lead to failure in the future as they become expectant on such actions for doing practially nothing etc another story anyway.
Im glad there's been suttin in there for you to take on board... And the whole oppinion ting is cool cause to be real i can see why some people may think that about me from a first glance (not that im bothered what people think but still). The ting is i actually post on here to share my views but to actually help people aswell... Ive made mistakes in my past like most others have and will but i used my experiences to make somethin positive which is why im an author, somethin which i am proud of at my young age cause i used somethin negative in my life and turned it into somethin positive and the fact that people enjoy what i put on here lets me know that im on the right track with sharin my knowledge with others. Whether i get money or just the simple piece of mind of knowin im doin my bit to help broaden peoples minds/knowledge is a bonus so its all good for me. Real Talk
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i'll startI believe that many (NOT ALL) men use phrases like "all women are whores" and "lol at trusting women" as excusses to cover up their counter productve mindset.in a world full of whores y are u wifying the girl that u met near the toilets of a club and got her number?in a world full of whores y does it only take u man 3 weeks to wife a girl.... do u think u actually know her? In my 20 years of life i've seriously dealt with 3 girls and entertained about 7 to 8 links who if u asked them at the time would of said that i'm their boyfriend, cuz we got on like dat
Ting about this idea yeah is that most peoples arguments are comin from opinion so i doubt we gonna come to end result on these debates really but either way ill drop suttin *awaits random people to try argue back for the sake of it* anyways i dont use the phrase all women are whores neither have i directly said lol at trustin women (Not sayin your personally attackin me) but as ive stated on here before, trust i believe is not somethin to be put into blindly. For example: when people have come out of a bad relationship and get into a next one and believe they have to trust this new person the same as the last... I dont get it. Cause if you've ever been betrayed you should of learnt that not everyone is worthy of your trust, so you need to be careful in the future, not givin everyone a clean slate and continually running in blind "cause its not fair" thats how you end up in a vicious cycle. Prime example... Some guy on here was sayin he knows someone who always treats girls nice yet they always treat him bad... Thats because he's foolishly makin the same mistakes over and over again. Now, if he learnt from his mistakes he would tone it down a bit and wait untill he meets a girl worthy of those kinds of special treatment. But he wont because he thinks its wrong to treat one girl different cause of what a previous girl has done him before... Thats where he's going wrong cause he hasnt learnt from his mistake and he's opening himself up to let it be repeated... Yet he's wondering why he cant find the right girl! The truth hurts but more time the answers are right infront of you if you will open your eyes.
Not even fronting,This is a great post.
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i'll startI believe that many (NOT ALL) men use phrases like "all women are whores" and "lol at trusting women" as excusses to cover up their counter productve mindset.in a world full of whores y are u wifying the girl that u met near the toilets of a club and got her number?in a world full of whores y does it only take u man 3 weeks to wife a girl.... do u think u actually know her? In my 20 years of life i've seriously dealt with 3 girls and entertained about 7 to 8 links who if u asked them at the time would of said that i'm their boyfriend, cuz we got on like dat
Ting about this idea yeah is that most peoples arguments are comin from opinion so i doubt we gonna come to end result on these debates really but either way ill drop suttin *awaits random people to try argue back for the sake of it* anyways i dont use the phrase all women are whores neither have i directly said lol at trustin women (Not sayin your personally attackin me) but as ive stated on here before, trust i believe is not somethin to be put into blindly. For example: when people have come out of a bad relationship and get into a next one and believe they have to trust this new person the same as the last... I dont get it. Cause if you've ever been betrayed you should of learnt that not everyone is worthy of your trust, so you need to be careful in the future, not givin everyone a clean slate and continually running in blind "cause its not fair" thats how you end up in a vicious cycle. Prime example... Some guy on here was sayin he knows someone who always treats girls nice yet they always treat him bad... Thats because he's foolishly makin the same mistakes over and over again. Now, if he learnt from his mistakes he would tone it down a bit and wait untill he meets a girl worthy of those kinds of special treatment. But he wont because he thinks its wrong to treat one girl different cause of what a previous girl has done him before... Thats where he's going wrong cause he hasnt learnt from his mistake and he's opening himself up to let it be repeated... Yet he's wondering why he cant find the right girl! The truth hurts but more time the answers are right infront of you if you will open your eyes.
Not even fronting,This is a great post.
Maybe so..,.but surely dude could write more succinctly/concisely than that...Essays are just not needed if thought is put into what is said.
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What's the argument here now???Can i start this one>>> I don't know if it's already been put in action but i hear that they plan to start sex education at age 6... Don't you think with children maturing earlier, like the youngest girl to get pregnant in the uk, i think this was last yr, was ONLY 11!! It just makes kids want to 'experiment' from earlier??I was appalled!! Do you think with morals plummeting like this there is a way back up??? I mean we argue about whores all the time on here but it's only a piece of a much bigger puzzle.. Is the a way to change? Or is it too late already??

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i hear u fambt true stories one mans hoe is another mans queenive only been in one serious relationshipdnt even do links too tough no more, i duno if its the medication or im gettin older bt jumpin from chick to chick right nw dnt do it for mei liked it when it was jus one the sex was more fulfilling (no chick)n i dnt use no rules, thats dumb, if i like a girl im nt gonna put her through some test to see if she's worthy or whatever, i'll just know coz we'd have that kinda connection, i dnt care if i sleep with her after 2 mins or 2 years sometimes the connection is jus there n all these rules do is f*ck u uponly think i look at is history, bt even then that dnt matter coz im come to see the girls i b with aint even had a slaggish past so its really more about if they gt their mind right n if we connect, my ex we could chat n laugh all day bout random sh*t, most chicks wnt even eat infront of me.also if the chicks u f*ck with turn out to be slags then maybe instead of gettin angry at every female u need to check urself and re-evaluate your pick up gamei dnt even pick up or chat up girls, its a mutual ting where we jus meet n randomly buss convo, thats how i know shes what i wantnever a road/club/kebab shop tingmaybe im gettin old, bt i jus cnt f*ck with these immature chicks no more, do my f*ckin head in
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