Letting your partner go places such as napa

[Michel Kane]

My point is & what Goliath was saying IMO, is the whole 'Napa-style' holiday goes beyond fidelity.Her class, her naivety, her attitude, etc has to be thought about. How susceptible she is to cheating is PART of it. We're focusing on cheating so much, because as young people, that's our main concerns when it comes to relationships. Whether she f*cked another dude.@ Soso King BTW

[SoCo KinG]

But everyone in here is talking about the girls who go to these places ALREADY planning on cheating... any girl that's not planning on cheating is more likely to cheat while being wined and dined by some french brudda in paris then they are to cheat while getting cheesy chat up lines throw at them in napa etc

Not all girls who cheat go there with the intension to. There will be guys with rubbish game, guys with game and guys who will have some next level game. OR there maybe certain guys who are that guy to break her (no pun intended) and this will be the downfall. Keep kidding yourself & let your mrs keep going these places, putting herself in needless attention seeking

Just because your relationships haven't worked out or you've broken up other relationships which may of not been working out doesn't mean you have any say on my situation because you don't know me and never will...i'm not saying girls don't cheat in these places..i'm saying there's is some give and take..a lot do go and cheat but i'm sure alot do go and stay faithful..so for you to assume i'm in 1 catorgory and not the other is stupid and immature.Respect to everyone thats given there view without ignorance.

[Uncle Man]

Why do people get some sort of validation like their opinion is worth more because they're "in a relationship"I was in a relationship 5 weeks ago that lasted 7 months and I was in a relationship 1.5 years ago that lasted 2 years, it doesn't mean I thought my opinion was any more valid because I was attached.f*cks sake. This "UR JUS A NO GF LOSER N HAV TRUST ISSUEZ GROWIN UP N U R BARE IMMATURE" retort is played out."

the modern women,all those posting in this thread included,view there sexual career in the same way a human being views a curriculum vitae. to not be in a relationship is to be unemployed.to be linking random brehs as a staple is cash in hand work which is fine on the side to a solid income but otherwise unreliable.they feel that with each relationship they are learning new skills and reaching projected targets by staying for two years then moving on to gain more skills and be a more complete functional woman. (ironically all this promotes is dysfunction and an inflated sense of self worth similar to bankers that prompt stock market crashes through non existent wealth creation)this is why srs relationships do not occur with these ppl,as you the employer can not expect employee loyalty at a set wage rate given the world of career opportunities and various perks available with there next big assignment.to work at the same company for yr whole career mite suggest a lack of ambition or sense of adventure,despite the possibility to work yr way up the ladder to the board of directors

I get what you're saying and it's a nice analogy, but it's silly to paint an entire demographic (the modern woman) in this way. I just have to ask: What, in your eyes, is the best way for a female to conduct themselves with regards to men? What people do relationships occur with?I'm not criticising, I'd just like to follow your assertions to their logical conclusion, as I see this sort of opinion often on VIP2.Very often, it's men who lead women up the garden path then dump them like old boots. I sincerely believe, and certainly in my experience, that a lot of women get into a "linkage" ting with a secret hope that it will end up as a relationship. A lot of women are there for the taking once intercourse has taken place, particularly if you're good to them and can offer them that long term security.

let me just say that any women who gets into a linkage thing before securing her position beyond doubt holds her value at zero and im unwilling to buy it for a higher price,that is terrible business senseas for the first part of yr post,its interesting as i have tried to follow the path to a logical conclusion and i keep getting stuck on building a time machine. joking aside i think women in cultures other than western may have some value remaining but this is far from guaranteed as the eye of hollywood casts its net very wide.there will always be the odd exception in this culture the diamond in the rough who has been raised in a family and who does not feel the meaning of life is her total and constant sexual ecstacy and incongruous luxury (both material and emotional),but i am yet to meet such an example,obviously to rule it out would be foolish,but i think it is highly unlikely.i bid all the mandem best of luck in there quest should they choose not to put gold sprinklings on a turd and hope for the best

[Guest Awesome Kong]

But everyone in here is talking about the girls who go to these places ALREADY planning on cheating... any girl that's not planning on cheating is more likely to cheat while being wined and dined by some french brudda in paris then they are to cheat while getting cheesy chat up lines throw at them in napa etc

Not all girls who cheat go there with the intension to. There will be guys with rubbish game, guys with game and guys who will have some next level game. OR there maybe certain guys who are that guy to break her (no pun intended) and this will be the downfall. Keep kidding yourself & let your mrs keep going these places, putting herself in needless attention seeking

Just because your relationships haven't worked out or you've broken up other relationships which may of not been working out doesn't mean you have any say on my situation because you don't know me and never will...i'm not saying girls don't cheat in these places..i'm saying there's is some give and take..a lot do go and cheat but i'm sure alot do go and stay faithful..so for you to assume i'm in 1 catorgory and not the other is stupid and immature.Respect to everyone thats given there view without ignorance.

What are you talking about? How old are you? :/It doesn't matter what category YOU are in, I'm telling you stuff you don't want to know, stuff you're trying to block out your mind./How can you insinuate I'm ignorant when I have witnessed many girls in relationships cheat on their bf when out in such places? Have you been to anywhere like Napa before? Serious question.

[SoCo KinG]

But everyone in here is talking about the girls who go to these places ALREADY planning on cheating... any girl that's not planning on cheating is more likely to cheat while being wined and dined by some french brudda in paris then they are to cheat while getting cheesy chat up lines throw at them in napa etc

Not all girls who cheat go there with the intension to. There will be guys with rubbish game, guys with game and guys who will have some next level game. OR there maybe certain guys who are that guy to break her (no pun intended) and this will be the downfall. Keep kidding yourself & let your mrs keep going these places, putting herself in needless attention seeking

Just because your relationships haven't worked out or you've broken up other relationships which may of not been working out doesn't mean you have any say on my situation because you don't know me and never will...i'm not saying girls don't cheat in these places..i'm saying there's is some give and take..a lot do go and cheat but i'm sure alot do go and stay faithful..so for you to assume i'm in 1 catorgory and not the other is stupid and immature.Respect to everyone thats given there view without ignorance.

What are you talking about? How old are you? :/It doesn't matter what category YOU are in, I'm telling you stuff you don't want to know, stuff you're trying to block out your mind./How can you insinuate I'm ignorant when I have witnessed many girls in relationships cheat on their bf when out in such places? Have you been to anywhere like Napa before? Serious question.

Because my point is you CAN'T notice the other half of the girls because they are not cheatingjust because you watched some girls cheating..doesn't mean there wasnt girls there not cheating..unless you can get a percentage you have no evidence to state theres more girls that cheat then the 1s that stay faithfulyou can only know about the 1s that cheat from seeing it..but you Cant see how many are being faithful

[Guest Awesome Kong]

SoCo AS SAID, HOW DO I KNOW ANOTHER DUDE HAD BETTER GAME THAN ME FOR THAT CHICK?!?!?!?!?! IT IS EASY TO CHAT TO ANY GIRL YOU WANT IN THEM PLACES. I HAVE SEEN DUDES MASH CHICKS I'VE TRIED TO WHO HAVE HAD A MAN AND SEEN GIRLS ON THE BACK OF QUADS WHO SAAID THEY HAD A BOYFRIEND./f*ck IT, ONE OF MY BOYS MOVED TO ONE CHICK WHO WAS IN THE SAME CLUBBING TOWN AS HER BOYFRIEND WHO ALSO WAS AN OLD FRIEND OF MINE AND SHE LIKED IT AND CONSIDERED BUT I STOPPED IT AS I DIDN'T WANT STUPIDNESS TO HAPPEN THERE.Your the ignorant one in this thread tbh.

[SoCo KinG]

SoCo AS SAID, HOW DO I KNOW ANOTHER DUDE HAD BETTER GAME THAN ME FOR THAT CHICK?!?!?!?!?! IT IS EASY TO CHAT TO ANY GIRL YOU WANT IN THEM PLACES. I HAVE SEEN DUDES MASH CHICKS I'VE TRIED TO WHO HAVE HAD A MAN AND SEEN GIRLS ON THE BACK OF QUADS WHO SAAID THEY HAD A BOYFRIEND./f*ck IT, ONE OF MY BOYS MOVED TO ONE CHICK WHO WAS IN THE SAME CLUBBING TOWN AS HER BOYFRIEND WHO ALSO WAS AN OLD FRIEND OF MINE AND SHE LIKED IT AND CONSIDERED BUT I STOPPED IT AS I DIDN'T WANT STUPIDNESS TO HAPPEN THERE.Your the ignorant one in this thread tbh.

Thats EXACTLY MY POINT...YOU ***********DONT********* KNOW...Key word being DONT....YOU DONT KNOW..SO DONT ASSUME..

[Guest Awesome Kong]

Guys deluded/in selfdenial

[SoCo KinG]

Dunno why you all assume you have to be cheating to have a good time..no these are not SEX places...Sex happens..These are PARTYING places...if you're looking to go have a good time (WHICH DOESN'T ALWAYS INVOLVE HAVING SEX).. you are not going to go sight seeing!

[Guest Awesome Kong]

You don't seem to realise these places are promoted on sex.Have you been to any? You haven't answered. If you lie and say you have I'll ask you about key places to see if you're gassing.

[SoCo KinG]

o guy defo is clueless.i would say its POSSIBLE to go there and not cheat etc but what hes saying is ignorance.

what am i saying what would be called ignorance?

[Giles Deacon]

lol some of you have got no hope, acting like every female in the world is a slore? grow the f*ck up

WHAT??? You're the one saying you would pic your girlfriend up from the airport after she's been with Darren, Mark & Joleon.

I think it's more the immature attidues on here tbh.For example, Ive never been nor am going to Napa, yet I'm still a 'Nisi beach warrior'Even if you don't go to party islands and you go to Florida with the hubby you're still a slag in the eyes of the forum.I think this is what Soco may be referring to.Correct me if I'm wrong

i said this because u said u 'know from experience that ppl change' that implied that u were one of the ppl we been talking about and changed.if thts not what u meant kool but u should be clearer

Actually I was refering to the people who say 'it could never happen to me/you know who you lay down with' etcand whist this is true, people change.When I got with my ex he worshiped the ground I walked on. Two years down the line he was borderline bi-polar and just a nasty person.Same way a good girl may change her attitudes towards men as she gets older/wants different experiencesIf it's a miscommunication then everythings fine

[Angelo]

Tbh I thought you were referring to yourself as well when you said that.

[Giles Deacon]

nope no Napa for meI'm far too excited to go to Harry Potter at Universal next year lol

[Giles Deacon]

do you have a girlfriend

[Guest Awesome Kong]

Nah f*ck letting me see this

[Giles Deacon]

yes I doand neither I'm mixed

[Guest Awesome Kong]

Your to short anyway brisco.

[Angelo]

[Guest Yilmaz]

why does this baffle you?

[Guest Awesome Kong]

why does this baffle you?

Because he must look up to him all the time when he sucks his c*ck, gives him the impression he's taller? I don't know.

[Guest Awesome Kong]

Brisco don't want none, he'll get air when I'm ere.

[E.A.S.E]

OMG, Talk about going round in circles.

[Heero Yuy]

OMG, Talk about going round in circles.

i pos'd you im feeling in a good mood and i agree with you

[Seth Rollins]

But everyone in here is talking about the girls who go to these places ALREADY planning on cheating... any girl that's not planning on cheating is more likely to cheat while being wined and dined by some french brudda in paris then they are to cheat while getting cheesy chat up lines throw at them in napa etc

NO. And this is where your problem is.I stated over and over again, it's CLASS, and the type of person that goes to such places. What you're talking about is trust. My argument doesn't even concern trust. Rather slackness.