Heero Yuy Posted July 26, 2010 Report Share Posted July 26, 2010 He wouldnt want to go such places but no i wouldnt object, hes a grown man and can do what he likes. If hes gonna cheat away on holiday hes gonna cheat back at home. If its in the person to do it, it will come out at some point.. regardless of when and where.how can you argue against such undeniable logic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Portuguese Posted July 26, 2010 Report Share Posted July 26, 2010 She can't be your girl <<<<<<<< Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Awesome Kong Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 One chick was gassing to me the other day about this, women are so stupid at times. If you want to go to such environment then you do not respect your fella. These holidays have a large percentage based on sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lens Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 He wouldnt want to go such places but no i wouldnt object, hes a grown man and can do what he likes. If hes gonna cheat away on holiday hes gonna cheat back at home. If its in the person to do it, it will come out at some point.. regardless of when and where.how can you argue against such undeniable logicKaygee, nah, if he doesn't wana cheat, he won't get himself into a situation that will encourage cheating.goin napa is like sayin "lemmi tempt myself to see if i would cheat if it was thrown at me"not the way forward. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KayGee Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 A group of young men on holiday near enough anywhere will have temptations, my issue is with this whole 'letting your partner'. People need to remember what being in a relationship means..Same guys who dont 'let' their girls go out to clubs.. This doesnt stop her wanting to do these things, you can physically prevent but you wont change the mind. If you get yourself into a mature relationship you should have these things covered and then you wouldnt even have to worry about this situation popping up. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Awesome Kong Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 A group of young men on holiday near enough anywhere will have temptations, my issue is with this whole 'letting your partner'. People need to remember what being in a relationship means..Same guys who dont 'let' their girls go out to clubs.. This doesnt stop her wanting to do these things, you can physically prevent but you wont change the mind. If you get yourself into a mature relationship you should have these things covered and then you wouldnt even have to worry about this situation popping up.Come on girl, have you been to these types of places? Because you're speaking like you haven't. Ask Lucinda, she'll tell you we are not gassing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
E.A.S.E Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 Doesn't matter where some people are, they wouldn't be drawn to the temptation, of free p*ssy. I agree with Kaygee about a mature relationship.On the other hand, they aint the kind of places I'd choose to go on holiday with a group of girls, their bait places for men/woman looking to get drunk have a good time and that attitude of what happens on holidays stays on holiday. You get the odd groups of people who just looking for sun sand & good time appose to sun, sand and easy peasy free p*ssy. Places like this, shagaluf, falaraki, ibiza etc. And if my man told me he was going on a lads holiday to any of these kinds of places, I'd be disapointed and he wouldnt be the person I thought he was. I wouldn't stop him going though, but he'd know I wasn't best pleased. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lemons Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 I pretty much trust my girlfriend implicitly TBH.Make of that what you will. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Awesome Kong Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 I pretty much trust my girlfriend implicitly TBH.Make of that what you will.[Lemons chick in Napa] I can't believe I'm doing this [/Lemons chick in Napa]No sending, just saying whats really good. 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lemons Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 I pretty much trust my girlfriend implicitly TBH.Make of that what you will.[Lemons chick in Napa] I can't believe I'm doing this [/Lemons chick in Napa]No sending, just saying whats really good.I don't think it is. But I did tell you to make of it what you want, so whatever. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Ant Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 certain niggas are just bitter coz they got burntlet it buuurrn let it burrrn gotta let it buurrrrrnim just sayin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KayGee Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 Pos Lemons, nice to hear. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heero Yuy Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 certain niggas are just bitter coz they got burntlet it buuurrn let it burrrn gotta let it buurrrrrnim just sayinTHISThere is too much generalisation but thats how VIP works.What i'm really trying to get at is I wouldn't approve of my girl going to these places but I wouldn't stop her either. End of the day no one here or anyone else can judge the limitations of trust is someone elses relationship.Going to these parties destinations you have to come to one ultimate conclusion, which is why you don't know how your partner is going to act over there, same way as a mother doesn't know how her son acts on road. I suppose it comes down to having to take a leap of faith in that person which you will have to do many times in the course of a mature relationship.Tbh it comes down to this for me personally, If I couldn't take a leap of faith in the girl who i've picked to be my girl in the first place then she never would have been my girl to begin with.... For those who DEFINITELY wouldn't let their chick go, they probably know what their girl is capable of deep down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 I can't speak for everyone but I suppose you're drawing comparisons to class and trash.Yes, the product/outcome might still be the same, but if your girl came and told you she was going on a 2 week cruise to the Dominican Republic how many man would say "Like hell you are"?It's the stigma/bad rep associated with it. Them places like Malia/Napa/Ibiza are seen as trashy places. Now the question really is, why is YOUR GIRLFRIEND going to such trashy places?Next minute you girls will be telling me you have no problems with you man going strip clubs. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
E.A.S.E Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 I can't speak for everyone but I suppose you're drawing comparisons to class and trash.Yes, the product/outcome might still be the same, but if your girl came and told you she was going on a 2 week cruise to the Dominican Republic how many man would say "Like hell you are"?It's the stigma/bad rep associated with it. Them places like Malia/Napa/Ibiza are seen as trashy places. Now the question really is, why is YOUR GIRLFRIEND going to such trashy places?Next minute you girls will be telling me you have no problems with you man going strip clubs.Thats what my point is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 Then stand by my side and CO-SIGN. *Spuds E.A.S.E and nods head in approval* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heero Yuy Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 I can't speak for everyone but I suppose you're drawing comparisons to class and trash.Yes, the product/outcome might still be the same, but if your girl came and told you she was going on a 2 week cruise to the Dominican Republic how many man would say "Like hell you are"?It's the stigma/bad rep associated with it. Them places like Malia/Napa/Ibiza are seen as trashy places. Now the question really is, why is YOUR GIRLFRIEND going to such trashy places?Next minute you girls will be telling me you have no problems with you man going strip clubs.Again your generalising here, not with the trashy places but with the answer that your looking for Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest M12 Part 2 Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 I can't speak for everyone but I suppose you're drawing comparisons to class and trash.Yes, the product/outcome might still be the same, but if your girl came and told you she was going on a 2 week cruise to the Dominican Republic how many man would say "Like hell you are"?It's the stigma/bad rep associated with it. Them places like Malia/Napa/Ibiza are seen as trashy places. Now the question really is, why is YOUR GIRLFRIEND going to such trashy places?Next minute you girls will be telling me you have no problems with you man going strip clubs.i agree with napa etc its because of the stigma attached to it but at the same time some girls and their friends do just wana go on a raving holiday and lots of them do just wana see what the hype is for themselves. Because regardless of what goes on, you dont often get the same kinda nice vibe matched with real music that you would actually listen to when you're at home in them other places like faliraki etc. and then add on to it sun, sea and sand.Most girls are loose but there are plenty who just go to dance, sunbathe and go home! Like Kaygee said a lot does really depend on how well you know your girl and whether you are ignoring the signs that suggest she shouldnt be your girl in the 1st place./my girl lets me strip club and has no problem with it. It's X's birthday and we are going strip club then going out is quite a regular one. tbh though i think she trusts me more than i trust myself sometimes! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 I can't speak for everyone but I suppose you're drawing comparisons to class and trash.Yes, the product/outcome might still be the same, but if your girl came and told you she was going on a 2 week cruise to the Dominican Republic how many man would say "Like hell you are"?It's the stigma/bad rep associated with it. Them places like Malia/Napa/Ibiza are seen as trashy places. Now the question really is, why is YOUR GIRLFRIEND going to such trashy places?Next minute you girls will be telling me you have no problems with you man going strip clubs.i agree with napa etc its because of the stigma attached to it but at the same time some girls and their friends do just wana go on a raving holiday and lots of them do just wana see what the hype is for themselves. Because regardless of what goes on, you dont often get the same kinda nice vibe matched with real music that you would actually listen to when you're at home in them other places like faliraki etc. and then add on to it sun, sea and sand.Most girls are loose but there are plenty who just go to dance, sunbathe and go home! Like Kaygee said a lot does really depend on how well you know your girl and whether you are ignoring the signs that suggest she shouldnt be your girl in the 1st place./my girl lets me strip club and has no problem with it. It's X's birthday and we are going strip club then going out is quite a regular one. tbh though i think she trusts me more than i trust myself sometimes!And there it is. The reason I wouldn't HAVE this issue. The reason I laugh at guys when I hear their girlfriend has told them this.HOLD TIGHT THEM INNIT. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest M12 Part 2 Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 It happens cos guys are used to dealing with 5s and then get a 7 and start treating them differently and letting certain things slide because the girl is "buff". This is the road to ruin, you should have the same expectations of a girl whether she looks like halle berry or whoopi goldberg. Too many man cater to chicks whose heads are gassed up and end up making them believe even more that they can do whatever they want. Your girl didnt start taking the piss when she went napa. It started from early when she started pushing boundaries to see what was acceptable and you just left her to it without stepping in. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 POS'D.This is the majority of men's problem in 2010. It SICKENS me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charliechalk Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 Women are so stupid at times. If you want to go to such environment then you do not respect your fella. These holidays have a large percentage based on sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charliechalk Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 If your girl even MENTIONS going to Napa/Malia/any other hype fest she's probably cheated on you or at a stretch thought about it already. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thinkingthuglife Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 my chick ainth appy im goin faliraki but end of the day if she has a erious problem me n her r gonna split coz its about trust. swear if she said she woz goin napa wi her mates i'd have her more worried about wot i'm gonna b doin while she on holiday. i'm not insecure n if u havea n insecure partner u need 2 drop them. im not even gonna get shines in faliraki. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seth Rollins Posted July 27, 2010 Report Share Posted July 27, 2010 Them lies there.This nigga's gonna be [sUGE KNIGHT] ALLLLLLLLL UP IN THE VIDEOS...[/sUGE KNIGHT] 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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