Fresh Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Here's the scenario...You have a girl quite blessed in the looks department, that you don't class as a friend, or even as an acquaintance. You just know her. And you've known her for a long time just from about, most probably from moving in similar circles or road or Uni/College... *Guys think of a girl in your head that fits this catagory now* She is close enough so that if you saw her on road you'd greet each other and ask about each others well-being as if you're long lost friends. But in actuality, you notice each other on facebook chat every day, and don't care enough to open conversation. You even have her number in your phonebook, for what reason you cant remember, but if you called she'd probably be baffed as to why you're even calling. *cuts to the chase*Over recent weeks, you've either seen her about frequently in the spots where you chill, slash raves you attend, slash seen notifications and lots of pictures from her in your news feed (for those net guys that don't like to participate IRL).Suddenly you realise you have developed a new found interest. And in the next couple of days you see her out, and decide it's time to advance.You have her number already so you cant ask for it. How do you approach, with developing a new 'link' being the primary objective?Disclaimer: - I'm not seeking advice, don't address your post to me as if I want tips. I'll post how I myself would tackle the situation later in the thread. safe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Whats this girls name who you are feeling? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresh Posted February 13, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Knew there would be oneAs you were Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michel Kane Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Whats this girls name who you are feeling? You neek.Anyway, me personally, I'd dig a lil' info on what she what enjoys, or something of common interest, and suggest we'd do something together in the near future without being too specific. Even if she doesn't accept straightaway, it'd let her know I'm interested and that would be my intention. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Da Luv Doc Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Also, there is one girl at uni, just before I got with my chick.I started thinking she was very very nice when I started small chat alot (though I thought she was buff before)She is hot, chat to her sometimes, say hello etc etc, then my friend told me she likes me NUFF!!!!!So I made him text her does she still like me, she replies that she wishes she could get with me etc etc.5 minutes later, me and my boy both walk into the lecture and my eyes laid straight onto her with a little smile, she knew the deal.SummaryMy situation was similar, I let her know by walking in her presence with my boy.She was on it, though I disengaged attack after getting with the mrs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghettogeek Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Simple tings....First tings is facebook....these things are easier on facebook...easier to manipulate it to ur advantage...Recently had to do suttin like this to get one chic from school....I never used to even talk to her at school...but she grew up.....seriously buff now....don;t even look like the same person....Now she gets a weekly service...all i wud do is buss joke on facebook...the rest came naturally...but as that's what i did this is my response to ur question.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Just ask to link her man.TBH, pointless thread. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R1. Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Just ask to link her man.TBH, pointless thread./Thread Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michel Kane Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Simple tings....First tings is facebook....these things are easier on facebook...easier to manipulate it to ur advantage...Recently had to do suttin like this to get one chic from school....I never used to even talk to her at school...but she grew up.....seriously buff now....don;t even look like the same person....Now she gets a weekly service...all i wud do is buss joke on facebook...the rest came naturally...but as that's what i did this is my response to ur question....I don't even believe this.In my experience, girls find it easier to front on FB. Face 2 Face FTW. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Da Luv Doc Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Simple tings....First tings is facebook....these things are easier on facebook...easier to manipulate it to ur advantage...Recently had to do suttin like this to get one chic from school....I never used to even talk to her at school...but she grew up.....seriously buff now....don;t even look like the same person....Now she gets a weekly service...all i wud do is buss joke on facebook...the rest came naturally...but as that's what i did this is my response to ur question....I don't even believe this.In my experience, girls find it easier to front on FB. Face 2 Face FTW.LOL Silver = Anti-Face Off Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghettogeek Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Simple tings....First tings is facebook....these things are easier on facebook...easier to manipulate it to ur advantage...Recently had to do suttin like this to get one chic from school....I never used to even talk to her at school...but she grew up.....seriously buff now....don;t even look like the same person....Now she gets a weekly service...all i wud do is buss joke on facebook...the rest came naturally...but as that's what i did this is my response to ur question....I don't even believe this.In my experience, girls find it easier to front on FB. Face 2 Face FTW.If u give her no reason to front then why wud she front....All i use facebook for is to make the chic wanna know more about me.....it's simple and it works....on facebook if u say something dumb that might have gotten a plainface and deaded ur whole gameplan it's much easier to turn it around....I guess it's one of them do what works for u.....but even if i draw for a chic on road and i get her facebook or number or whatever....i'll most likely do most of my chattin online or by text..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresh Posted February 13, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Just ask to link her man.TBH, pointless thread./Thread"Can we link please"kmt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghettogeek Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Simple tings....First tings is facebook....these things are easier on facebook...easier to manipulate it to ur advantage...Recently had to do suttin like this to get one chic from school....I never used to even talk to her at school...but she grew up.....seriously buff now....don;t even look like the same person....Now she gets a weekly service...all i wud do is buss joke on facebook...the rest came naturally...but as that's what i did this is my response to ur question....I don't even believe this.In my experience, girls find it easier to front on FB. Face 2 Face FTW.LOL Silver = Anti-Face OffIf by that u mean i am face offs opposite.....Then yes....I dont f*ck childrenNor do i f*ck fat white middle aged women and put their pics online Then yes...u are correct... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Percy Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Just ask to link her man.TBH, pointless thread./ThreadNah nah I like this thread/Thread closing denied. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Percy Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Simple tings....First tings is facebook....these things are easier on facebook...easier to manipulate it to ur advantage...Recently had to do suttin like this to get one chic from school....I never used to even talk to her at school...but she grew up.....seriously buff now....don;t even look like the same person....Now she gets a weekly service...all i wud do is buss joke on facebook...the rest came naturally...but as that's what i did this is my response to ur question....I don't even believe this.In my experience, girls find it easier to front on FB. Face 2 Face FTW.LOL Silver = Anti-Face OffIf by that u mean i am face offs opposite.....Then yes....I dont f*ck childrenNor do i f*ck fat white middle aged women and put their pics online Then yes...u are correct...Steady with the flames charizard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresh Posted February 13, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 I agree text for some people is easier simply because more you have time think and tailor your responses appropriately. But that can backfire when you can't be as consistent when it actually comes to the face to face encounter. Which is the encounter that counts.In reply to my own thread (as promised) I'd approach her and draw the number in the exact way I would with a stranger. Ask for the number and pretend i never had it. only difference is I'd call her same day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghettogeek Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 Simple tings....First tings is facebook....these things are easier on facebook...easier to manipulate it to ur advantage...Recently had to do suttin like this to get one chic from school....I never used to even talk to her at school...but she grew up.....seriously buff now....don;t even look like the same person....Now she gets a weekly service...all i wud do is buss joke on facebook...the rest came naturally...but as that's what i did this is my response to ur question....I don't even believe this.In my experience, girls find it easier to front on FB. Face 2 Face FTW.LOL Silver = Anti-Face OffIf by that u mean i am face offs opposite.....Then yes....I dont f*ck childrenNor do i f*ck fat white middle aged women and put their pics online Then yes...u are correct...Steady with the flames charizardNot to be taken literally.....To me being 30 and banging anyone younger than 23 = child...lolHe was known to go beloww 18....which to me is a child...lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghettogeek Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 I agree text for some people is easier simply because more you have time think and tailor your responses appropriately. But that can backfire when you can't be as consistent when it actually comes to the face to face encounter. Which is the encounter that counts.In reply to my own thread (as promised) I'd approach her and draw the number in the exact way I would with a stranger. Ask for the number and pretend i never had it. only difference is I'd call her same day.It's easy to keep it up....If ur really tellin porky pies it might be hard....but then u rubbish if ur doin that..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresh Posted February 13, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 I agree text for some people is easier simply because more you have time think and tailor your responses appropriately. But that can backfire when you can't be as consistent when it actually comes to the face to face encounter. Which is the encounter that counts.In reply to my own thread (as promised) I'd approach her and draw the number in the exact way I would with a stranger. Ask for the number and pretend i never had it. only difference is I'd call her same day.It's easy to keep it up....If ur really tellin porky pies it might be hard....but then u rubbish if ur doin that.....lol na na na, I dont even mean lies, just a certain caliber of conversation. RAGING conversation about outrageous topics. But when you come face to face. The vybe is dead-hhhhhout. Tell me you haven't experienced this? People who've done the net link are most likely to relate. It can happen by the phone aswell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michel Kane Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 For me, if you begin dialogue face 2 face, then any kind of dialogue afterwards SHOULD be a breeze i.e. FB, phone etc...The same can't be said or is less likely to happen, if you've begun chatting on FB i.e., you realizing she looks like a wilderbeest in person. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
R1. Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 If you've already got her number, jus bell her and tell her your on this ting. Simple. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Wavant Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 LOL I know EXACTLY the type of girl you are on about.You could start via FB but chances are she wont take you seriously. Clown status will be issued.Co-sign Kane. F2F interaction is the best bet here. Next link up you people have show her attention init. Dont call her before hand.Put it on her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghettogeek Posted February 13, 2009 Report Share Posted February 13, 2009 There's no right or wrong really....I know the deadout ting on link up....it happens....but that's a minor....can still work it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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