Scared To Get Close To Someone?

[Avon Barksdale]

Does anyone else get this, when you do eventually get close to someone you begin to distance yourself from them and sometimes even completely lock them off and erase them from your life.I keep on doing this.I do it with brejrins and femalies.I hate it.I dont have any bad experiences which would have caused me to become like this (that i can think of anyway).Also nobody else in my family seems to be like this.

[Percy]

I do this, but mainly with femalesI have no idea why tbh. And I dont even realise Im doing it until the last momentsCant understand why

[NO SUNSHINE]

I keep on doing this.I do it with brejrins and femalies.I hate it.

+It particularly happens when someone says something like "Oh you two are tight innit" or "You and X are on each other, it's bait"Instantly makes me distance myself, to the point where I behave extremely rudely to the person concernedWeird

[Ari Gold]

Yeh courseNot so much nowadaysBut i did this a lot with my current gfConstant push and pullRate her for putting up with it tbh

[Ironman]

yeh do it all the time, (females only)iBeg someone come with an explanation because I still haven't heard a good reason I do this. the closer they get the further I push.

[gattsu]

dont do it no need reallyno point in being scared

[Nola D]

dont know why people do this it isnt nice.

[Guest Triple X]

nah i aint scared of sh*t, from when u expect the worse of everyone nothing bad could ever happen

[Guest Logster]

Its not fear, its protection.

[Angelo]

This thread is me.Best way to isolate yourself from people is by doing this.Need to stop it.Swear I need to find someone who changes all my beliefs or I'm f*cked.

[General Mac]

Lately I've been feeling myself doing it to my girl but quickly re attach. It's all the experience you have with people I guess, people disappoint far more than they impress. So you distance yourself as a protection type of action

[FANTA]

do this without thinking.but in a strange way i like it like that.

[shower]

do this without thinking.but in a strange way i like it like that.

[shower]

my girl hates me cos of this but as someone said shes stuck through me,i dunno what it is ive been with her for time, like nearly 2years but dont get me wrong shes close to me, but certain time i dont let her fully in its mad. re reading this its alot of bs lol

[Soca Junkie]

Started getting close to some guy at uni... but I'm gonna start distancing myself because I don't wanna get too attached to him.I don't usually do this... but in this case... I think it needs to be done.

[Michel Kane]

This thread is me.Best way to isolate yourself from people is by doing this.Need to stop it.Swear I need to find someone who changes all my beliefs or I'm f*cked.

[Natalie]

I do this as a form of protection.

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

interestingit explains a lot

[Ari Gold]

You have to test the waters initYou just learn to not give yourself up completelyJUST INCASE

[MARLO STANSFIELD]

i actually enjoy pushing some females away so they try their damndest to get close to meits evil but i really like doing it.them ones where you just go on cold to the woman and dont call and they send some cute sweet text like "how come we dont talk as much" you know they miss your company but you just wanna be a git to the chick and cut off her supply of sweet boy emotions.

[kurious]

i hear thiswhen uv liked some1 so long and the 'dream' finally manifests,sometimes i get so nervous that im actually cold 2wards them, i notice myself kind of recoil when they lean in 2wards me, and that sends out mixed msgs in terms of body langits a defence mech, 2 try and keep the reignsits likei dont want to give them a taste, then they want to eat the whole platecuz when they are full up, i cant give the next in line some any leftoversthen im going to have to go into the kitchen, again, wash up, season, and cook a whole new mealthats often the bit every1 frets on, so we just put up a sign in shop window saying 'closed'i think i just need to keep in mind that its MY kitchen and although no1 gets served without my consent, customer service is akey factor to customer loyaltysumminlikethat

[Tayven]

Real genuine people are hard to find these days. Trust is something that takes time to develop.Therefore, I never burn bridges with anyone I regard as a friend.I play my part keeping in touch and (hope) they do the same.

[Rippy]

I do this.This IS this reason I have not been in a relationship for over 2 years.I'm content, but this needs to change/improve.

[Tayven]

dp

[FKFJ.]

I do this.This IS this reason I have not been in a relationship for over 2 years.I'm content, but this needs to change/improve.

This is me too.Constantly happening.Like someone said in another thread i need to change my beliefs or im f*cked