hellomarshmello Posted February 26, 2009 Report Share Posted February 26, 2009 after a long relationship how long does it take you to move on and start seeing new people? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
streets. Posted February 26, 2009 Report Share Posted February 26, 2009 about minus 4 years Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goddaz Posted February 26, 2009 Report Share Posted February 26, 2009 It usually depends on the actual relationship. Length alone may not mean alot, consider how deep it was, kids or not (abortions), how good or bad it ended, first 'love', V breaking, good times, bad times etc.Imo males usually get over it faster than females unless children are involved. In that case, its never really over as such. I will say keeping busy working, meeting new people (dating/linking) & just generally keeping it moving speeds up the process.I've been in 5 proper relationships, ONLY 1 of them took me more than 24 hours hours to get over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SHOCK Posted February 26, 2009 Report Share Posted February 26, 2009 after a long relationship how long does it take you to move on and start seeing new people?what a dumb question. have you even thought for just, just a split second that everyone is different. Therefore your question void. If your asking how long DID YOU take then thats different. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thinkingthuglife Posted February 26, 2009 Report Share Posted February 26, 2009 It usually depends on the actual relationship. Length alone may not mean alot, consider how deep it was, kids or not (abortions), how good or bad it ended, first 'love', V breaking, good times, bad times etc.Imo males usually get over it faster than females unless children are involved. In that case, its never really over as such. I will say keeping busy working, meeting new people (dating/linking) & just generally keeping it moving speeds up the process.I've been in 5 proper relationships, ONLY 1 of them took me more than 24 hours hours to get over.good advice blood. it depends on a lot of things. Just split wi 1 chik yesterday but over it already. when i split up wi another exit messed me up a bit and i think i made bad decisions after her. went from an older woman to a younger chik. from nice woman 2 ghetto gyal. from woman who didnt need me 24/7 ya get me. fuked up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hellomarshmello Posted February 26, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 26, 2009 lol believe it or not im atualy askin people on the forum how long it takes them 2 move on n start seeing different people ect therefore im guna get different answerswho did u think i was askin just 1 person?????wtf lol :S Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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hellomarshmello Posted February 26, 2009 Author Report Share Posted February 26, 2009 oops my pc froze so uno 2 replys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ephren Taylor Posted February 26, 2009 Report Share Posted February 26, 2009 Depends how it ended... and who did the ending Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heero Yuy Posted February 26, 2009 Report Share Posted February 26, 2009 In your own time, there ain't really no correct answers to your question, everyones different Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prdx Posted February 26, 2009 Report Share Posted February 26, 2009 It usually depends on the actual relationship. Length alone may not mean alot, consider how deep it was, kids or not (abortions), how good or bad it ended, first 'love', V breaking, good times, bad times etc.Imo males usually get over it faster than females unless children are involved. In that case, its never really over as such. I will say keeping busy working, meeting new people (dating/linking) & just generally keeping it moving speeds up the process.I've been in 5 proper relationships, ONLY 1 of them took me more than 24 hours hours to get over. this tbh.. i broke up with my girl just hours ago.. i got a link for 2moro night... coulda been 2nyt if i cba to go out but i cant... for all i kno she could have her ex or a nex man there so bwoi, f*ck been the bitter one staying in, catchin feelings.. im keepin it moving matefor the record i havent cheated on her and while i was with her i never so much as made eye contact with a next gyal.. ive said b4 tho stil if u dnt play the games its guna play u.. dnt really wana tbh.. but i kno i'll feel better afterwards tbh cah in my mind an prob in reality she with a next man now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FANTA Posted February 26, 2009 Report Share Posted February 26, 2009 im still recovering tbh.i just mask it all by linning up links.the only way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Logster Posted February 26, 2009 Report Share Posted February 26, 2009 Take as long as you need to. Dont force yourself to 'get back in the game' it will only end in tears. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prdx Posted February 27, 2009 Report Share Posted February 27, 2009 this tbh.. i broke up with my girl just hours ago.. i got a link for 2moro night... coulda been 2nyt if i cba to go out but i cant... for all i kno she could have her ex or a nex man there so bwoi, f*ck been the bitter one staying in, catchin feelings.. im keepin it moving matefor the record i havent cheated on her and while i was with her i never so much as made eye contact with a next gyal.. ive said b4 tho stil if u dnt play the games its guna play u.. dnt really wana tbh.. but i kno i'll feel better afterwards tbh cah in my mind an prob in reality she with a next man nowarghhhhh.. ignore that last post.. i have got a link set up for 2morro cos i honestly felt, in the heat of the moment it'd be the best thing to do.. but been honest cos thats all i am, i stil got feelings for my girl an the thought of been with somebody else at this time is making me feel sick.. yh i caught feelings an blah blah but since my name is paradox and my gemini sign is a contradiction in itself..i now c/s logsTake as long as you need to. Dont force yourself to 'get back in the game' it will only end in tears.move at ur own pace and dont do nothing too hastey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O.Man Posted February 27, 2009 Report Share Posted February 27, 2009 after a long relationship how long does it take you to move on and start seeing new people?what a dumb question. have you even thought for just, just a split second that everyone is different. Therefore your question void. If your asking how long DID YOU take then thats different.how about we are social animals and can learn from one another Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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