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i thought getting a third party is using ur imagination!dnt matter how freaky ur chick is sex will eventually get boring/monotonousplus i dnt think der is such a thing as a prude chick nowadays
Damn right sex will eventually get boring, sh*t sex with the same porn star bitch of your dreams will eventually get boring. But there are a few ways to deal with that.1. Accept it and have sex as a chor2. Reinvent yourselves as individuals then as a couple, try different things3. Limit the amount of sex you have for a while so that you both miss it
1. loooong2. Joka!3. Deprive ourselves? NEVER!bring another bitch in once a week/month, spice things up niiicely!!
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i thought getting a third party is using ur imagination!dnt matter how freaky ur chick is sex will eventually get boring/monotonousplus i dnt think der is such a thing as a prude chick nowadays
Damn right sex will eventually get boring, sh*t sex with the same porn star bitch of your dreams will eventually get boring. But there are a few ways to deal with that.1. Accept it and have sex as a chor2. Reinvent yourselves as individuals then as a couple, try different things3. Limit the amount of sex you have for a while so that you both miss it
1. loooong2. Joka!3. Deprive ourselves? NEVER!bring another bitch in once a week/month, spice things up niiicely!!
Then marriage is not for you my friend.
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i thought getting a third party is using ur imagination!dnt matter how freaky ur chick is sex will eventually get boring/monotonousplus i dnt think der is such a thing as a prude chick nowadays
Damn right sex will eventually get boring, sh*t sex with the same porn star bitch of your dreams will eventually get boring. But there are a few ways to deal with that.1. Accept it and have sex as a chor2. Reinvent yourselves as individuals then as a couple, try different things3. Limit the amount of sex you have for a while so that you both miss it
1. loooong2. Joka!3. Deprive ourselves? NEVER!bring another bitch in once a week/month, spice things up niiicely!!
Then marriage is not for you my friend.
smh so ur saying that in order to get married u have to accept that sex will be a CHOR and ull have to either limit ur sex drive or reinvent urself jus to keep it going ? LOL!This kind of thinking is y der are so few marriages, whats the benefit? sounds like ur loosing out which will eventually lead to it falling apart
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thats fair enough but one of the most obvious ways to refuse to conform to the strictures of wedlock is to not get marriedjust in case u didnt know
its not wedlock itself which is the issue, its the (or shall i say western society) perception of what marriage entails.i still want a partner for life
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thing is unless ya wise to the game having a wedding could be ya un doing i can just imagine the high percentage of female haters that are mere cannon fodder for the average guy on a linkage flex just attending the wedding in envy and thinking or ever SAYING "i wonder how long this lasts"people dont EMBRACE each other enough in relationships i saw a young couple only a couple days ago and they had kids with them, now assuming they are a family i WANTED to stop them and say that the four of them as a young family is a beautiful thing and they are lucky. I actually felt like saying that to them and i kinda regret not doing it cos i feel that not enough people are given encouragement and instead have people hatin on them and trying to find one of the partner slipping so they can go back to the other and say "guess what i saw your man/girl doing" (hence the way people LOVE to watch that show cheaters)to be honest any couple below 35 in the black community getting married has a heavy burden on their shoulders cos your one in the few that feel marriage works and MOST of the people you would invite are not even worthy of a relationship much less a marriage and the friends you keep are also part of ya marriage.for now quiet weddings is the way forward.

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I jus refuse to conform to the current social/religious setting of what a mariage shud be. ill do wat makes me an the misses happy!
LOL. Acting like marriage is whatever you want it to be. Like it isn't originally a religious concept.
real talk tbhand its not even a lol tingits a smh ting cos some fool fool woman MAY try to do this also and when it ends it tatters it will end up being just another failed marriage that was doomed from the start.
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i thought getting a third party is using ur imagination!dnt matter how freaky ur chick is sex will eventually get boring/monotonousplus i dnt think der is such a thing as a prude chick nowadays
Damn right sex will eventually get boring, sh*t sex with the same porn star bitch of your dreams will eventually get boring. But there are a few ways to deal with that.1. Accept it and have sex as a chor2. Reinvent yourselves as individuals then as a couple, try different things3. Limit the amount of sex you have for a while so that you both miss it
1. loooong2. Joka!3. Deprive ourselves? NEVER!bring another bitch in once a week/month, spice things up niiicely!!
Then marriage is not for you my friend.
smh so ur saying that in order to get married u have to accept that sex will be a CHOR and ull have to either limit ur sex drive or reinvent urself jus to keep it going ? LOL!This kind of thinking is y der are so few marriages, whats the benefit? sounds like ur loosing out which will eventually lead to it falling apart
Your completely missing the point my man, you reply me as if I said every marriage is destined to fail. If you happen to be in a marriage where the sex is always on fire then you need not worry about making it a chor or reinventing yourself and spicing things up. Your narrow minded response shows you didn't assess my answer properly.Even before marriage couples re invent themselves, introduce new things, spice things up. However, in marriage its a whole different playground especially if kids are involved, you just dont divorce a person because your sexual appetite isn't full, most people accept or spice it up. I gave 3 very common choices people take......actually, without being rude, how old are you?
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i thought getting a third party is using ur imagination!dnt matter how freaky ur chick is sex will eventually get boring/monotonousplus i dnt think der is such a thing as a prude chick nowadays
Damn right sex will eventually get boring, sh*t sex with the same porn star bitch of your dreams will eventually get boring. But there are a few ways to deal with that.1. Accept it and have sex as a chor2. Reinvent yourselves as individuals then as a couple, try different things3. Limit the amount of sex you have for a while so that you both miss it
1. loooong2. Joka!3. Deprive ourselves? NEVER!bring another bitch in once a week/month, spice things up niiicely!!
Then marriage is not for you my friend.
smh so ur saying that in order to get married u have to accept that sex will be a CHOR and ull have to either limit ur sex drive or reinvent urself jus to keep it going ? LOL!This kind of thinking is y der are so few marriages, whats the benefit? sounds like ur loosing out which will eventually lead to it falling apart
Your completely missing the point my man, you reply me as if I said every marriage is destined to fail. If you happen to be in a marriage where the sex is always on fire then you need not worry about making it a chor or reinventing yourself and spicing things up. Your narrow minded response shows you didn't assess my answer properly.Even before marriage couples re invent themselves, introduce new things, spice things up. However, in marriage its a whole different playground especially if kids are involved, you just dont divorce a person because your sexual appetite isn't full, most people accept or spice it up. I gave 3 very common choices people take......actually, without being rude, how old are you?
i may have missed ur point but i wasnt reading between the lines or assesing ur response i took it at face value, u shud have explained.thats exactly the point, i was suggesting another way of spicing up a marriage cud be a threesome etc... so asked who wud partake in such act. (which is also a common choice people make)as much as u want to live in denial sex is important part of any relationship (up to a certain age) so if appetites are not for fulfilled for a period of say 10yrs den eyes WILL start to wander.
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I jus refuse to conform to the current social/religious setting of what a mariage shud be. ill do wat makes me an the misses happy!
LOL. Acting like marriage is whatever you want it to be. Like it isn't originally a religious concept.
real talk tbhand its not even a lol tingits a smh ting cos some fool fool woman MAY try to do this also and when it ends it tatters it will end up being just another failed marriage that was doomed from the start.
slyly hypocritical of u to say this after in ur last comment u mentioned people at weddings who hate and wish it to fail...marriages fail all the time, if a couple tried this and it didnt work there cud b a number of reasons
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I jus refuse to conform to the current social/religious setting of what a mariage shud be. ill do wat makes me an the misses happy!
LOL. Acting like marriage is whatever you want it to be. Like it isn't originally a religious concept.
real talk tbhand its not even a lol tingits a smh ting cos some fool fool woman MAY try to do this also and when it ends it tatters it will end up being just another failed marriage that was doomed from the start.
slyly hypocritical of u to say this after in ur last comment u mentioned people at weddings who hate and wish it to fail...marriages fail all the time, if a couple tried this and it didnt work there cud b a number of reasons
i dont get how it isbut okay
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i thought getting a third party is using ur imagination!dnt matter how freaky ur chick is sex will eventually get boring/monotonousplus i dnt think der is such a thing as a prude chick nowadays
Damn right sex will eventually get boring, sh*t sex with the same porn star bitch of your dreams will eventually get boring. But there are a few ways to deal with that.1. Accept it and have sex as a chor2. Reinvent yourselves as individuals then as a couple, try different things3. Limit the amount of sex you have for a while so that you both miss it
1. loooong2. Joka!3. Deprive ourselves? NEVER!bring another bitch in once a week/month, spice things up niiicely!!
Then marriage is not for you my friend.
smh so ur saying that in order to get married u have to accept that sex will be a CHOR and ull have to either limit ur sex drive or reinvent urself jus to keep it going ? LOL!This kind of thinking is y der are so few marriages, whats the benefit? sounds like ur loosing out which will eventually lead to it falling apart
Your completely missing the point my man, you reply me as if I said every marriage is destined to fail. If you happen to be in a marriage where the sex is always on fire then you need not worry about making it a chor or reinventing yourself and spicing things up. Your narrow minded response shows you didn't assess my answer properly.Even before marriage couples re invent themselves, introduce new things, spice things up. However, in marriage its a whole different playground especially if kids are involved, you just dont divorce a person because your sexual appetite isn't full, most people accept or spice it up. I gave 3 very common choices people take......actually, without being rude, how old are you?
i may have missed ur point but i wasnt reading between the lines or assesing ur response i took it at face value, u shud have explained.thats exactly the point, i was suggesting another way of spicing up a marriage cud be a threesome etc... so asked who wud partake in such act. (which is also a common choice people make)as much as u want to live in denial sex is important part of any relationship (up to a certain age) so if appetites are not for fulfilled for a period of say 10yrs den eyes WILL start to wander.
PAUSE&HOLDDude at what point did I imply that sex isn't essential? No sendage. lol looks like we keep missing each others points.We both get the it, without sex = the obvious
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i thought getting a third party is using ur imagination!dnt matter how freaky ur chick is sex will eventually get boring/monotonousplus i dnt think der is such a thing as a prude chick nowadays
Damn right sex will eventually get boring, sh*t sex with the same porn star bitch of your dreams will eventually get boring. But there are a few ways to deal with that.1. Accept it and have sex as a chor2. Reinvent yourselves as individuals then as a couple, try different things3. Limit the amount of sex you have for a while so that you both miss it
1. loooong2. Joka!3. Deprive ourselves? NEVER!bring another bitch in once a week/month, spice things up niiicely!!
Then marriage is not for you my friend.
smh so ur saying that in order to get married u have to accept that sex will be a CHOR and ull have to either limit ur sex drive or reinvent urself jus to keep it going ? LOL!This kind of thinking is y der are so few marriages, whats the benefit? sounds like ur loosing out which will eventually lead to it falling apart
Your completely missing the point my man, you reply me as if I said every marriage is destined to fail. If you happen to be in a marriage where the sex is always on fire then you need not worry about making it a chor or reinventing yourself and spicing things up. Your narrow minded response shows you didn't assess my answer properly.Even before marriage couples re invent themselves, introduce new things, spice things up. However, in marriage its a whole different playground especially if kids are involved, you just dont divorce a person because your sexual appetite isn't full, most people accept or spice it up. I gave 3 very common choices people take......actually, without being rude, how old are you?
i may have missed ur point but i wasnt reading between the lines or assesing ur response i took it at face value, u shud have explained.thats exactly the point, i was suggesting another way of spicing up a marriage cud be a threesome etc... so asked who wud partake in such act. (which is also a common choice people make)as much as u want to live in denial sex is important part of any relationship (up to a certain age) so if appetites are not for fulfilled for a period of say 10yrs den eyes WILL start to wander.
PAUSE&HOLDDude at what point did I imply that sex isn't essential? No sendage. lol looks like we keep missing each others points.We both get the it, without sex = the obvious
ok, i thought u wer saying ....arr forget it, dismis the last point i made !
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