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Tbh going out for food and drinks is what I would rather these days, sex (for me anyway) is boring based solely off looks, when you actually get on with someone and break down that 'stranger barrier' it's 10x better, if all it takes is some food, drink and a chat to make that happen then calm

I used to be reckless, racking up numbers left right and centre but after a while it's just not fun anymore, if you're 25+ and scared to take a girl out for food/drinks that's a bit worrying

I feel you on this tbh.

whipping up and down the m25 for beats, long.

Good company with sex>>>>>> sex

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Tbh going out for food and drinks is what I would rather these days, sex (for me anyway) is boring based solely off looks, when you actually get on with someone and break down that 'stranger barrier' it's 10x better, if all it takes is some food, drink and a chat to make that happen then calm

I used to be reckless, racking up numbers left right and centre but after a while it's just not fun anymore, if you're 25+ and scared to take a girl out for food/drinks that's a bit worrying

I feel you on this tbh.

whipping up and down the m25 for beats, long.

Good company with sex>>>>>> sex

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Tbh going out for food and drinks is what I would rather these days, sex (for me anyway) is boring based solely off looks, when you actually get on with someone and break down that 'stranger barrier' it's 10x better, if all it takes is some food, drink and a chat to make that happen then calm

I used to be reckless, racking up numbers left right and centre but after a while it's just not fun anymore, if you're 25+ and scared to take a girl out for food/drinks that's a bit worrying

 

i see the angle of this

 

 

but are u saying u do this as a means of just fuking them with no intention on wifying them?

 

a kinda... u dont really want to have a relationship with them, but going to ones house just to fuk is dead - grab a munch then fuck??

 

 

i c u

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This is where you man are getting it wrong

Going out to eat with a gyal doesn't equate to good company

Good company is good company regardless of what you're doing so why would you require a restaurant to make it a good experience?

I'm not on spending time or money with gyal that are not my gyal

Give them alcohol yes

And d

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if you're looking to just do your thing why would you wanna beat on a full stomach for a start.

 

if anything, it should be ANYTHING else rather than a restaurant. 

 

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Bar >>> couple rounds >> chit chat>>> are you about the same ting/vibe >>

                                                                                                                          `` No >> Finish it up -- chill for a bit for change then dip

 

 

Either way you wanna spend the least money possible especially if its first time meeting them. ..... Unless you're looking for love which obviously you man are not. 

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very anti food when its early days...unless she cooks for me

 

taking girls shangri-la, sitting across like some interview and pretend not to sweat when the bill comes...for a girl ive known for 2 weeks?

 

confident no one here does that

 

end of the day, if you feel like your not getting taken for a mug you can do what you want but theres rules

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You're acting like we have to take a girl on a date to get the beat, don't get it twisted

I'm saying if there was 2 options for a girl Iv never met

1.come round and have sex

2. go out for drinks, go cinema (or whatever) make an evening of it, then go home and have sex

I'm choose option 2, Iv done option 1 more than my fair share of times and it just gets boring

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very anti food when its early days...unless she cooks for me

 

taking girls shangri-la, sitting across like some interview and pretend not to sweat when the bill comes...for a girl ive known for 2 weeks?

 

confident no one here does that

 

end of the day, if you feel like your not getting taken for a mug you can do what you want but theres rules

 

Only took a girl for food once on a first meet and that was because i came straight from work and I NEEDED to eat, it was calm.

 

Besides that I would always go for drinks over food, much more relaxed environment.

 

My main point was just because she's not my girl/will never be my girl I have no problem chilling with good company outside of straight beating scenarios.

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Why should any stranger off the street have the privilege of visiting your home? I'd much rather go out, access them in a public place then decide if they're worthy of coming back or not, llow dropping them the address and opening the door to some nonsense

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But hey, each to their own.

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I meet a chick on a night out or while I am out and about during the day

If I like the look of them I give them my number never ask them for theirs(Pos Mike for this)

If they are interested they will get contact you

The process is normally from ten minutes to two hours

We will exchange a few messages on what's app

I tell them I hate typing through a screen

I need to look them in the eye when I am talking which leads to them asking to go out for a drink/food or coming over.

I suggest Nandos if they think that their are

too bougie for that

Then they have three choices

They come over to mine and I give them one of the top three best nights of their lives

We go to an expensive restaurant where we pay for ourselves

She bounces

I have nothing to lose due to having way too many options

It's their loss because spending time with me it will be like being in a movie

Oscar award winning moments each and every time spent in my presence.

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PDG

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